...disagree or just stop talking about the issue. Denying conflict can ruin a relationship. Some Couples yell, humiliate, embarrass, and demoralize each other. These are not affective ways of fighting. There are ways to improve your communication skills. When your partner is upset don’t be defensive. A lot of the time its not a right wrong situation. It’s a different perspective that your partner is coming from. Being caring and supportive increases the desire to talk. An important thing is to be honest with each other. Lying will make the conflict worse. Listening is probably the most important thing you can do. Lastly, there are rules for fighting fair. You should never attack your partner. It will only make them defensive. No one likes to be backed into a corner. Like I wrote before, be honest. Do not belittle or threaten your partner. Its better to focus on the problem not the person. Avoid fighting dirty, its not fair to your partner. Try not to be to serious and lastly strive for closure as soon as possible. In conclusion, communication is one of the main problems that a couple has. Couples deal with it in many different ways, and most prove ineffective. There are right ways to communicate and deal with conflicts. If couples could take time to relax and think about the right ways and discuss them together then maybe...
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...Dear Mum. The past few days have been horrendous, we had been fighting non-stop for 3 and a half days. Your will be happy to know that I am safe and not injured; although I wish I could say the same for many of the soldiers that I fought with. Throughout the past few days I had seen many terrifying things that would completely change your idea about the war. You know how people say that Soldiers are meant to be strong, brave and fierce? Well this is not the case. They look like beggars that we would see on the side of the street as we were walking to the shop. As we were fighting everyone got more and more tired with each attack. They all looked as though they were sleepwalking. Not having a clue what they were doing. I feel as though the war as been presented in a completely contrasted way to what the government had said as I was joining for the war. When I signed up for it, they made it seem as though I was doing a great thing for my country and that we would go to Germany, fight out fight, then return home brave and victorious. However they did not say anything about the hardships that us soldiers would face on this unwanted journey. Innocent people such-as myself are dying left right and center, that all came to the war thinking the same as me. That It was an honor. The living conditions here are non-existent in normal human civilization. We sleep for nights in a row in trenches filled with mud and water. With out clothes soaked through to our skin. The smell is hideous...
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...Diamonde Jones English 1301 Professor ,Miles Human Outcaste “We are not fighting for integration, nor are we fighting for separation. We are fighting for recognition as human beings…In fact, we are actually fighting for rights that are even greater than civil rights and that is human rights”-Malcolm X (Black Revolution).African Americans for thousands of years have been considered an outcaste. Not only were Brittany and Bobby not allowed to date Tyrone and Diamond but they were also not allowed to associate with them. So you tell me are Caucasian women clutching their purse a little tighter for a reason or are African Americans really the social outcast they portray us to be? The media wants the world to believe that people like David Walker and Michael Brown were inhuman so they deserved to die. But in fact they were just like every one else. August 9, 2014 an unarmed young man name Michael brown was shot to death and left in the road for several hours. By the men who were suppose to serve and protect us. He was not much older then 18 with a college future ahead of him. Did he not deserve the right to a trail? After the shooting they were using extreme force to keep African Americans in there house as if they were animals so they can stay silenced. The media only showed on national television the parts of men women and children scattering for their lives over and over again. What they only showed bits and pieces of was the black actavist bringing a black community...
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...Teen activism is about young people making a difference in the world. There are many terrifying things going on in our world right now. But a lot of the people trying to make a change in our world our teens. Teen activists are inspiring because they fight for what's right, they speak out, and they want to make a difference. Teen activists are inspiring because they fight for what's right. It seems that every activist wants to help, and they don't stop fighting for what's right and what they believe in. For example, Malala Yousafzai. Malala was born on July 12, 1997, in Mingora, Pakistan. As she grew up she noticed a problem and wanted to fix it. Malala fought for young girls education everywhere. On October 9, 2012, she was shot in the head,...
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...Thomas Jefferson had once said “To secure these rights,Governments are instituted among men,deriving their just power from the consent of the governed”.In the Quote,Jefferson is explaining that,the power of the Government is being held by the same people,and to secure the rights we want,we have different people who are not part of the Government that can help us to have the rights that is best for our country. The argument in this essay will be about Civil Disobedience,now Civil Disobedience is the refusal to comply with certain laws or to pay taxes and fines,as a peaceful form of political protest.This essay will include great examples about Civil Disobedience such as,”The Letter From Birmingham Jail” by Martin Luther King,”The Declaration...
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...heard the saying, “Choose your battles.” This is so true. We engage in so many battles that do not have a real reward. We waste energy fighting on Facebook and Twitter. We fuss and argue...
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...Dhemna Grace P. Baquilod August 5, 2014 GPE0211 History of Arnis The term arnis is believed to be a Tagalog corruption of the Spanish term arnes, or harness, a reference to the decorations worn by the early Filipinos. Kali is another term used to refer to the same kind of martial arts. Different provinces may have different names for arnis, such as baston and kaliradman (Ilonggo, Bisaya), pagkalikali (Ibanag) and kalirongan (Pangasinan). These are only a few examples of the terms already recorded in different sources.One suggestion is that it originally came from another martial art system, called tjakalele. This is actually the name of a branch of the Indonesian martial art system known as pentjak silat. Another suggestion is that it was brought here from the Southeast Asian mainland, particularly during the Madjapahit and Shri-Visayan empires. Yet another suggestion is that it was propagated by the so-called ten Bornean datus fleeing persecution from their homeland.The glorious lives of Filipino heroes are linked with the awesome power of the martial art of Arnis. They triumphantly waged their heroic battles for freedom and liberty as a testimony of the power and effectiveness of Arnis. Their successful stand against their superiorly armed adversaries in mortal combat in the arena of battle is now held in immortal inviolability by history.It would not be far-fetched to...
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...storyline in the series of WoW, thereby causing the loss of its mainstream worldwide gaming subscribers—adults. In order to play MMORPG games, a subscription fee is paid monthly that allows the player access to a company’s server. After the launch of Cataclysm in December 2010, the WoW subscribers had globally reached 12 million. The number of subscribers started to decline over the last year and a half when a majority of disgruntle gamers had exhausted the full scope of the third expansion, Cataclysm, after crushing Deathwing the Destroyer in a dramatic endgame raid within months after its release. When WoW gamers learned the next expansion’s new class was a kung fu panda, additional subscribers began dropping the game left and right, bringing Blizzard’s global subscribers down to 9.1 million players as of August 2012—the same number of...
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...losing a loved one. In this situation the government decided to give money to the family members of the victims. “ The courts started to put a dollar value on a life after death.” (What is life worth? Amanda Ripley).However, how much money is someone’s life worth? According to the article “what is life worth” the government believed the families should receive money based on what they would of made throughout their lifetime. So if this lady worked for higher part of the company and made more money than your husband who was just a janitor does her family deserve more money than yours? “First, the government will estimate how much a victim would have earned over his or her lifetime had the plans never crashed. That means the brokers family will qualify for a vastly higher award than a windows washers family.”(Feinberg)...
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...“ If there must be trouble let it be in my day, that my child may have peace” ( Paine 109). Thomas wanted peace for his kids but in order to have the peace he was trying to persuade other people to fight for it and telling them they have to change and they have to do everything they need to do in order to win. In the Thomas Paine Crisis No. 1 logos was the most technique used, it was persuasive to the colonists and the revolutionaries because in order to have peace for their children they had to go to war. The harder you work and fight for what you want the happier you will be when you get the results you want for yourself and others. In order to have peace in the future you must go through the struggles during the present times. “Tyranny...
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... relationships have the potential to be very difficult. This is because two people fall in love and still do not if they are going to the same college. Falling in love right before college acceptances are out is very risky especially if one party is smarter than the other. That being said, if you do really love someone and you end up in a long distance relationship, you are not doomed. It is possible that it works out. If as a couple you are happy when you are physically together, then you should also be happy when you are some miles apart. However, before one attempts to be in a long distance relationship, they have to be very sure that this is what they want to do. They could potentially lose their other half even as a friend as fights when in a long distance relationship can get pretty heated, unless of course they have a very solid base. Nonetheless, it is tough when you are trying to build a new life elsewhere. It somehow feels like there is no space to fit a piece of your old life in. Your other half needs to know that there is space for them in your new life. That being said, communication is one of the main keys to making a long distance relationship in college work. You need to make your other half feel special and important. Also, you need to be able to remind yourself that he/she is still in your life. Although they are not physically there, they are there for you if you need them. Set a weekly Skype date in order for both of you to feel that there is time. College...
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...Fighting the Risk of Fire; Investing in Fire Extinguisher and Secure Safe Resource Box: Proper equipment and readiness is crucial in fighting fire. I am Peter Slate, sales representative at London Fire and Safe. Our fire extinguishers Brisbane ~ fire extinguisher sales Brisbane experts are here to offer a helping hand. The key to fighting fire is prevention, detection, containment and escaping. To prevent fire from spreading and minimize the risk of injuries in the workplace, all the risk factors must be assessed and staff given the necessary training and drill. Using fire and smoke detectors to detect fire in good time is a critical safety measure that can save lives and minimize the effects of fire damage. With regards to containment, a...
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...DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE? Exodus 3:9-14 9 And now the cry of the Israelites has reached me, and I have seen the way the Egyptians are oppressing them. 10 So now, go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt." 11 But Moses said to God, "Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?" 12 And God said, "I will be with you. And this will be the sign to you that it is I who have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you will worship God on this mountain." 13 Moses said to God, "Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, 'The God of your fathers has sent me to you,' and they ask me, 'What is his name?' Then what shall I tell them?" 14 God said to Moses, "I AM WHO I AM. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: 'I AM has sent me to you.' " Hmm. I have to be honest. As I rested my spirit on these verses, the lord asked me this question “do you know who I am?” I said “yes lord” I have to be honest, at that point nothing came to my spirit. this has been one of those weeks where I've had a hard time resting my spirit to hear from the Lord.... but I am pretty sure I know who my lord is... I said again "yes Lord" The Lord asked me again… “do you know who I am? I said…. “yes Lord” Again… know further response to the Lord. So… I continued to read: Exodus 3:9-14 9 And now the cry of the Israelites has reached me, and I have seen the way the Egyptians are oppressing them. 10 So now, go...
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...men resisted the draft. The term resisted is extremely different from dodged. The men who fled America were draft resistors, not draft dodgers. The novel The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien is a collection of stories about American soldiers fighting in the Vietnam War. The narrator, Tim O’Brien, was in a platoon of soldiers based in Vietnam and survived through the war....
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...still fighting for equality and rights for all people, today. The “feminist movement” as it was often referred to as, began in the 1960s and drug into the early 1970s. As a woman during this time, you were expected to all lead the same life, get married in your early 20s, have a few babies right away, then take care of cleaning and caring for the children for the rest of eternity. That preceding sentence, I bet has already...
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