...develop an external character that mirrors the beauty of the internal. It is this congruency in which one is motivated to continue on the journey to become a counselor. Throughout this journey I have been afforded the opportunity to become aware of the strengths and growing edges that I possess. When I consider the time I have spent in the counseling program thus far, I am reminded that in such a short amount of time I have evolved from an individual who was guarded and very much afraid of change and the efforts of social interaction, to a man exhilarated by human interaction and the opportunities provided to further my personal evolution. In order to expand on this idea of growth I will reflect upon my current strengths and weakness, my personal reservations, and current interpersonal factors as they relate to intentional interviewing skills. As a counseling student I often begin to doubt myself, particularly my own relative mental health and emotional stability. I have asked the question, “How can I help someone else, when I’m such a wreck myself?” This is a legitimate question and unfortunately it is too rarely asked by those of us who need to ask it most. There is a lot to think about and work through. My own personal family history, my work life, my loves, my other relationships, my belief system not to mention all of the course work I am trying to absorb can all conspire to make you feel inadequate. At times it seems too complex, too cum¬bersome to sort through, yet...
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...to” measure the effectives ness of a wellness-based group counseling intervention on the self- esteem of 8th grade girls.” The intervention took place within the counseling department in a suburban middle school that included seven sessions with each session being 35 minutes long and each session focused on something different and each session including an educational activity from role playing and career explorations. Self- Esteem is something that majority of adolescents go through, mainly adolescent girls. During the adolescence stage it is constantly changing, for girls they have the capacity to define who they are or who they want to be and then they decide if they like that identity...
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...Personal Characteristics and Behaviors Julie Mayfield Walden University Personal Characteristics and Behaviors This paper will address the personal characteristics and behaviors that the counselor needs to posess to connect with their clients and build the trust necessary to develop a therapeutic alliance. I will discuss my personal counseling strengths and possible client issues that could be a challenge for me to deal with if I have not totally dealt with my past. I will also list two strategies to address this challenging behavior and describe how this might make me a stronger person and counselor by dealing with this issues. The skill and personal characteristics of the counselor will enable the "helping relationship to be the cornerstone on which all effective helping rests" (Capuzzi & Gross, 2011, p. 3). I have many of the core conditions that will be needed to establish a positive relationship with my clients. I believe that some of my strengths are my empathic understanding, my respect and positive regard for people, my warmth and I am a genuine and authentic person with clients and friends (Capuzzi & Gross, 2011, p. 7-8). I think of these strengths that the respect and positive regard for people would lead the way to developing a therapeutic alliance with my clients. It is so important to demonstrate as well as communicate to the clients that I believe that they have the worth and potiential to work toward change and accomplish their goals (Capuzzi...
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...The Wellbeing of Counseling Professionals Mariah Shields Bolf Liberty University Abstract The of this intention paper is to help shed light on the issues that can affect a counselor’s wellbeing and impair their ability to counsel clients. When dealing with clients who have experienced sever traumatic life experiences counseling professionals can begin to face emotional issues of their own. Understanding and recognizing how this happens, why it happens and ways to effectively combat it when it does are an important aspect of being a professional counselor. The Wellbeing of Counseling Professionals Pray, eat right, exercise, get plenty of sleep, take time for yourself and talk to someone. Six common and well know key pieces to dealing with the daily struggles of life, they help control stress and reduce anxiety. But what if you are the one that people turn to when they need to talk, to share distressing life experiences and are seeking understanding and compassion. Caring for the needs of others can quickly over shadow the needs of caring for ones self, what are the consequences of this and how can we as counselors maintain healthy lives so that we may serve others to the best of our abilities. In order for a counselor to be effective in the help that they give to their clients they must offer a more vulnerable side of themselves during a session. This is extremely important in helping the client feel safe and allows them to see the counselor as someone...
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...PL 530 CHRISTIAN COUNSELING THAT REALLY WORKS COMPASS THERAPY IN ACTION BY DR. DAN MONTGOMERY PUBLISHED BY COMPASS WORKS, 2006 PAPER WRITTEN BY REV. STEVE BUSE MASTER’S IN CHRISTIAN COUNSELING PAPER PREPARED FOR NEWBURGH THEOLOGICAL SEMINARY AND COLLEGE OF THE BIBLE SUBMITTED FOR GRADING ON JANUARY 12, 2016 The book Christian Counseling That Really Works was a great book to read. It gives examples of twenty five techniques that one can use in counseling. The book talks about the compass therapy approach, which I thought would be a very helpful tool when working a counseling session. I am looking forward to putting some of these techniques into action in the years to come. The Compass Therapy combines counseling or therapy with Christian beliefs. A counselor must use good counseling techniques with Christ’s healing power. Study cases have shown the there are two polarities that make up a persons personality. These polarities are love/assertion and weakness/strength. These polarities make up what they call the LAWS of personality and relationships. These LAWS can help you choose between healthy and unhealthy personalities. The LAWS break down into four quadrants of a circle. The four quadrants are called love, assertion, weakness and strength. The circle represents boundaries. These boundaries separate people from the world giving each person their own...
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...who has come to career counseling because he is dissatisfied with his employment. Darren finds it hard to get along with supervisors and feels anxious when confronting challenging tasks. There are vocational issues, along with personal issues. Darren is going through a divorce and is currently unemployed. He explains he has never received what he really needed from his parents. There are different challenges Darren is experiencing at the same time. As his counselor, it is my duty to work through his issues using the Hill and O’Brien helping skills model. Stage One – Exploration Stage one; exploration is a critical stage in the counseling process, where the counselor and the client build upon their therapeutic relationship (Niles, Goodman & Pope, 2001). As Darren’s counselor, it is my responsibility to engage him in activities in order to build rapport, express empathy, and encourage story telling. In the exploration stage, it is essential to guide Darren in developing a comprehensive career...
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...POSTMODERN APPROACHES Solution-Focused and Narrative Therapies Key Terms: Alternative story- a story that develops in counseling in contradiction to the dominant story that is embedded in a problem. Co-authoring- a co-joint process where client and counselor share responsibility for developing alternative stories. Deconstruction- exploring meaning by taking apart/unpacking the taken-for-granted categories and assumptions underlying social practices that are guised as truths. Dominant story- understanding a situation that is accepted within a culture that appears to represent reality. Dominant stories are developed through conversations in social and cultural contexts and these stories shape how people construct and constitute what people see, feel, and do. Exception questions- SF counselors inquire about times when the problem(s) have not been problematic. Shows that problems are not ever existing and always overpowering. Externalizing conversation- a way of speaking about a problem as if it is a distant entity, separate of the person. Based on the premise that people who view themselves as the problem limit themselves to the extent they cannot effectively deal with the problem. Formula first session task- observation homework given that must be completed between first and second session. They must observe what is happening in their lives that they want to continue to happening. Mapping-the-influence questions- a series of questions asked about a problem...
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...FAR EASTERN UNIVERSITY January 2013 RESEARCH DIGEST UNIVERSITY COUNSELING AND CAREER OFFICE An Annual Publication of UCCO Volume 1 Issue 2 Continuously Contributing to the Holistic Development of FEU Students This research digest is an informative tool of the University Counseling and Career Office with its major goal, to analyze and contribute novel ideas, towards the growing field of guidance and counseling. The main objective of which is to intensify the holistic welfare of the FEU students. Furthermore, this digest features the scholarly work of the adept and experienced team of the UCCO focusing on the counselor-based programs and action plans. With this, the team is delighted to share with you this annual digest as a response to the emerging needs and for the sustenance of the value of excellence of the Institution. POINTS OF INTEREST Page 2 UCCO’s SWOT Analysis, Nature of Counseling and Special Cases: Basis for a Comprehensive FEU-UCCO Guidance Program A Five Year Cross-Sectional Survey of FEU Institutional Exit Interviews An Evaluation on the Needs Assessment as Basis for Revision of ACE Modules College Adjustment Level of F r e s hm e n I nt e r na t i o na l Students Profile of FEU Students under the Selective Retention Policy Learning Style Profile of Freshmen Students of FEUMakati Psychological and Adjustment Problems Among Freshmen Architecture Students Results of the Module Evaluation on Leadership and Self-Empowerment Page 3 Page 4 Page 5...
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...Personal Model of Helping University of Phoenix BSHS/ 312 Models of Effective Helping Personal Model of Helping All theories have different views on ways of helping and different goals to imply. By using the person-centered approach ones view of human nature comes from one’s helping style. One would require a style that would make the client believe he or she is safe and understood. By the client knowing his or her therapist or counselor does understand him or her then he or she will believe he or she is safe and accept the help offer by the therapist or counselor. One could possibly set his or her on goals for change or except those of the therapist or counselor. “Person-centered therapy holds an optimistic view of human personality and focuses on present rather than past experience. Focusing on the inner experience of persons rather than on observable behavior, it holds that behavioral change evolves from within the person rather than through the manipulation of the environment” (Parrott III, 2003). View on Helping Developing a personal theory for the way one would want to understand human nature and provide him or her with the help he or she needs takes careful consideration. From what I have learned from this model of effective helping course is that the human service profession is a complex and overwhelming process, and one has to understand the methods one uses. My view on professional...
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...Why I chose to become a mental health counselor Counseling others is a difficult job that requires people to listen, take notes, and respond in ways that are positive and helpful. It is important that trust be built between the counselor and the patient so that the patient will feel comfortable speaking about issues that are private or embarrassing. There are many different types of counselors including drug counselors; marriage counselors, grief counselors, job counselors, diet and exercise counselors, and others that can help people improve their lives in different ways. Counselors are trained to offer advice and listen to issues that may be bothering other people. They are not allowed to prescribe medication or expected to provide medical advice. Approximately 25 percent of North Americans suffer from diagnosable mental health issues each year. With the increasing awareness of the related social, political and economic impacts of these problems, there is a greater need for professional mental health counselors. Additionally, health care insurance providers, driving the demand for more qualified professionals, recognize most mental health counseling. After earning a master's degree in mental health counseling, most people choose to get licensed or certified in a specialty such as: • Rehabilitation counseling • Substance abuse counseling • Marriage and family counseling Mental health counselors work with individuals, groups and communities on a variety of mental health...
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...Paper on Personal Model of Helping The following paper discusses the personal model of helping called the existential therapy model. The model of therapy is used to help people in counseling live better, stress free lives by exploring themselves and learning to live an authentic life. This model is effective when the therapist is authentic themselves and are genuine about helping others, which builds a positive relationship between the therapist and the client. This kind of model allows the client to open up and gives them the ability to explore themselves; past, present, and future. Existential therapy allows the client to understand that their lives are a direct response from the choices that they make in their lives. The therapist also gives the client tools to help change the new found negative behaviors. And although change is sometimes hard to adapt to, with the proper tools from the therapist and motivation from the client, the correct path to an authentic live can began and goals achieved. Existential therapy recognizes the problems of the human condition and existence while at the same time emphasizing human beings' great potential and freedom to respond constructively to these challenges. It helps individuals who choose depression as a response to existential difficulties to break this negative pattern ("Ehow.com", 2013). Existential Model of Helping From my viewpoint, I feel that the existential approach to counseling model of helping is very effective. I have formed...
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...skills. It includes both formal and informal instruction, internal and external learning opportunities, professional development programs, performance assessments, developmental counseling, and recognition and awards. To aid in the continuing professional development process, all elements of the 201st RTI will ensure that an Individual Development Plan (IDP) is developed for each S&F member. The IDP benefits both the organization and the member. The IDP will be revised annually and align with the organization's mission, goals, and objectives. b. It is important to note that Staff and Faculty Development not only focuses on current assignment...
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...GUIDELINES FOR WRITING THE REPORT OF INTERNSHIP ACTIVITIES Revised February 2013 Master of Science in Counseling Psychology Frostburg State University Frostburg, Maryland 21532-1099 http://www.frostburg.edu/dept/psyc/graduate/intern.htm (click on Guidelines for Writing the Internship Activities Report) Guidelines For Writing the Report of Internship Activities 2 Table of Contents What You Should Know Before You Start Your Paper…………………………………………… (including what is done with your paper, how to submit your final paper AND who needs to read your paper before it is finalized) 3 Sample Title Page………………………………………………………………………………….. 4 Sample Internship Paper Release Form……………………………………………………………. 5 Sample Table of Contents…………………………………………………………………………. 6 Summary of Internship Experiences………………………………………………………………. 7 Case Summaries…………………………………………………….…………………………....... 7 Self-Evaluation…………………………………………………………………………………...... 8 Evaluation of the M.S. in Counseling Psychology Program………………………………………. 8 Case Summary Format………………………………………………………………………….…. 8 Guidelines For Writing the Report of Internship Activities 3 WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE YOU START YOUR PAPER Over the years the Guidelines for Writing the Report of Internship Activities has changed, thus you need to be careful to follow the format in THIS CURRENT GUIDELINE instead of relying on the format of previous students’ final papers. The aim of your...
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...suffers from depression secondary to back pain and thyroid disease. Currently she and husband are struggling financially; she lives with her in-laws while her husband is on deployment. Client unable to manage personal finances and presently not employed. Program Development of Informational Needs Physical factors: Extent of Disability 1. How does the disability handicap employment potential? 2. Is the disability progressive or stable? 3. Can person’s functioning in activities of daily living be improved? 4. Is the disability stable enough to initiate rehabilitation programming? Psychosocial Factors 1. To what degree has the client adjusted to the handicapping aspects of the disability? a. Does the person use “disability” as an excuse for failure? b. Are any of physical symptoms psychologically based? c. Does the client have the emotional stability to engage in a vocational rehabilitation program at the present time? In the near future? Family and Friends 1. What positive or negative role will the individual’s family and friends play in the rehabilitation process (e.g. supportive, overprotective or unrealistic regarding client potential)? 2. What personal counseling and/or family counseling services will be necessary (e.g. psychotherapy, personal adjustment training, relaxation training)? Educational-Vocational Factors Education Consideration 1. What types of vocational training or jobs that client’s educational histories suggest...
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...counselor. Additionally, the framework of the community counseling model is taken into account, including some of the strategies used in community counseling. The Role of a Community Counselor Community counseling can be defined as “…a comprehensive helping framework that is grounded in multicultural competence and oriented toward social justice (Lewis, Lewis, Daniels, & D'Andrea, 2011). While this definition may serve as a starting point, any meaningful understanding of the role and function of a Community counselor requires more than a brief description or a cursory glance at a definition. The community counseling model is based on four fundamental assumptions and several concepts. The first assumption is: “1. Human development and behavior take place in environmental contexts that have the potential to be nurturing or limiting” (Lewis et al., 2011). This assumption refers to the connection between people and their environment and its potential to act as a source of support or as a limiting factor on their development. The community counseling model effectively deals with the environmental factors that have an influence on the development of problems that people encounter. “2. Even in the face of devastating stress, people who are treated respectfully can demonstrate surprising levels of strength and access resources that a pessimistic helper might not see” (Lewis et al., 2011). Traditional approaches to counseling have featured a narrowly focused scope with an emphasis...
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