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Marriage is an intimate and complementing union between two people. This is which the two become one till death does them part. Although marriages seem beautiful an romantic in the beginning, most go through trials and tribulations throughout the way such as infidelity. Some believe after that point theirs no turning back after one has crossed that line. Marriages can fully recover from infidelity with a lot of communication, power of forgiveness, and compromise.
Communication is the foundation of a strong marriage. Many marriages could be saved if spouses improved the ways they communicate with each other. For instance, in the film "fences" Rose wonders why troy chose to get close to another woman because that’s what she was there for. Troy began to lack communication with his wife because he chose to step outside his marriage and communicate with another woman. This all could have been avoided if he chose to use his communication skills strictly between him and rose. If communication was really that simple, everyone would be doing it, but its somethings that takes time and dedication. …show more content…
Truthfully, forgiveness is quite the opposite. Forgiveness can be quite painful when it involves someone you are madly in love with. Forgiveness is not being so numb to pain that we are oblivious to reality. When a couple can continue to work through their issues and try their best to overcome a situation forgiveness plays a huge role. One can say that a critical tool for a healthy marriages is the ability to forgive your spouse. You have to be able to let go of past hurts, disappointments and petty arguments is a way to keep yourself healthy both physically and emotionally. This is the only way you will be able to move forward in your relationship

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