...People in the world never realize what lying can affect. Once in someone's life they have lied because lies always repudiate with something that is true. Lying is never acceptable because people can get hurt or even themselves. Lying hurts everyone in the situation even the victim. According to article 2 It’s the Truth: Americans Conflicted About Lying by NBCNEWS.com “A lie harms the liar himself, by destroying his human gignty, and making him worthless than a small thing”. The quote is basically saying that lying hurts the human kind. Some people lie just for themselves to avoid their own consequences. Lying hurts things in people's life without even knowing it. Stated in article 4 Teens Do their Share of Lying by Loretta Ragsdell “When...
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...do because it will affect others depending on how often a lie is told. After a lie, the feeling of telling a lie is so terrible that it might have gotten the other people into trouble for something that did not even occur. In the article, “The Ways We Lie” by Stephanie Ericsson, she talks to us about the different types of lies there are. She explains how lying comes out in a person’s everyday life even when is inevitable. However, “In the Pale Moonlight” from Star Trek: Deep Space Nine shows how one of the main characters, Captain Sisko, felt guilty because of the lies he had made. The lie he makes, cost...
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...research into the detection of lies (15) When conducting research into detecting lies, researchers could potentially face many problems. These could be ethical or practical. The study by Mann attempted to find out about the police’s ability to detect liars. They studied this as we cannot know for sure if the police are good at identifying liars as the public are not allowed to observe recordings of interviews as a suspect is always innocent until proven guilty. The aim of this research was to test police officers ability to distinguish truth and lies during interviews with suspects. Her research was made up of 99 police officers from Kent. This alone is a practical problem as it means the sample is geographically limited to only one area and means the sample can only be representative of this area or other police forces. Perhaps the MET or the FBI have different methods of detecting lies and are either better or worse than much larger forces. A problem in conducting research with this sample was that there wasn’t a control group of non-police officers to test the hypothesis of this study; therefore it was not proved that police officers were better at detecting lies. This research was a field experiment meaning that the ethical guidelines may be challenged as Mann would have had to have gained the full permission of the participants before conducting the study. In this study, Police officers were shown 54 video clips of 14 suspects of real life police interviews. The clips...
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...reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Proverbs 12:18 Learning Aim: 1. Use your words to build others up, not tear them down. Basic Supply List: 1. Bible 2. Chalk/Chalk board 3. Construction Paper 4. Markers Optional Learning Activities: 1. Show the “Speak Life” video from TobyMac. Discuss the examples from the video of words helping or hurting others. 2. Play the “Encouragement Game” Note: In the teaching plan below the words in italics are meant to be read aloud. The regular text is simply directions for the teacher. > > > > Basic Teaching Plan < < < < Introduction: Begin the class by greeting each student. Ask them to try to think of a time when someone said something that made them feel really good. What did they say? Allow a few students to share. Now, have them think of a time when someone said something to them that did not make them feel good. Write this question on the board (or just say it out loud) “Do the words that you say matter?” Allow the kids to consider this for a few minutes, possibly with a partner. Then lead a discussion about how the words we say affect those around us. In conclusion, the words we say have to power to make people feel a certain way, and we must always use our words to build people up. Biblical Evidence: Ask the class to open their Bibles to Proverbs 12:18-22. Read verse 12:18 with the class. Say, This verse helps us compare helpful words with hurtful...
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...Truth and Lies How can one’s reputation affect his or her decisions? Reputations decide whether or not one is accepted or denied within the community. With reputation, comes a great responsibility, the responsibility of maintaining that reputation through actions of right and wrong. One’s actions can overall result in a truthful representation of one's reputation, or the falsity behind one's lies. In the tragedy, The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, reputation motivates one's actions, whether right or wrong, to ultimately derive in life, or death. The idea of reputation can persuade someone to create lies, in hopes to achieve his or her desired position within the community. The doubts of Abigail's good reputation within the community prompts...
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...A recent interview has shown that “More than 80 percent of women advocate beneficial lying- - meaning that the lie is more important than the truth” (Barash 1). This statistic shows that women are more compassionate when faced with others’ feelings. Women feel the need to lie to avoid confrontation if they told the truth, when approached with a touchy subject. The same interview concludes that “More than 75 percent of women feel justified in their lie” (Barash 1). This means that, women lie to please others and to protect their reputation amongst others. Many people use a lie to spare someone’s feelings; however lying should be used as a form of deception. Women are more likely to lie to spare someone’s feelings, while other women and men use...
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...When I was young, I lied all the time. I lied to my parents, my friends, my teachers, and even people I didn't know! Now, I don't lie. I tell the truth because it feels better, it helps me keep my relationships strong, and it helps me be clear about who I am and what I want. Lying has caused so much pain in my past that I wouldn't do it even if I could. I follow the rule that if I have nothing nice to say, I don't say it at all. How about you? Do you need to stop lying? Following are 7 affirmations to use that will help you remember that lying is no good and being honest is always the option. 7 Affirmations To Stop Lying Stop Lying Affirmations To Help You Maintain Great Relationships And Be Happier 1. Lying Hurts My Relationships You may...
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...In the article, Teens do their share of lying, the author Loretta Ragsdell argues that teenagers lie because they feel they need to do so to escape punishment. She supports her ideas through interviews with numerous teenagers who shared their experiences of lying with her. In the interviews, the teenagers explain how they lie about grades, absence, and other things in which the parents disapproved and would lead to a type of chastisement. By publishing this article, Ragsdell is trying to inform people of the lies that occurs among teenagers and prove that teenagers do not lie because it is an available option to them, they instead lie because they feel like they have to in order to avoid castigation. After personal...
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...question can fill volumes so I am going to tackle the two most prevalent aspects to what will happen if you lie. Health Ramifications Most of us can remember when we last told a lie, or when the lie required you to recall details of what it was about. You may recollect feeling stressed, anxious and actually having an adverse physical reaction because you had to guess at the specifics of the lie? What’s even more daunting is what you thought was believed to have been forgotten, may now be overwhelming your thoughts despite your efforts to forget about “it”. Psychology researchers at the University of Notre Dame conducted a 10-week study on a group of 110 individuals, half of which were asked not to lie, and the other half told to keep track of how many times they actually lied. [1] The researchers followed each participant’s mental and physical health with survey’s...
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...being lied to. By definition the word “learn” means “to gain knowledge or understanding of or skill in by study, instruction, or experience” (“Learn” def. 1). At a young age my parents told me lying was wrong, but it wasn’t until I experienced being caught that it imprinted in my brain. Lies may serve different types of purposes, however, no matter what the purpose, as a whole, I view lying as a learning experience. Categorizing lies based on their purpose helps me understand why a person might lie. Judith Viorst did an excellent job of categorizing lies in her essay “The Truth about Lying.” She presented four categories: “social lies” (314), “peace - keeping lies” (315), “protective lies” (316), and “trust - keeping lies” (317). However, there are many places where lies would fit into more than one category. When I took a look at lies that I have been told and have told, I realized that many fell into Viorst’s category of “social lies” (314) as well as another she presented. Thus, I would drop the category of “social lies” (314) and would add societal lies, or lies that are told strictly by society. Such as the idea of Santa Claus being real, girls having to be skinny, and even advertisement lies; for example, “this new 2012 Hyundai Elantra is the best car out there!” The revision I have made of Viorst’s categories are based on what purpose the liar has...
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...Nicholas Hamilton Rhetoric 20 Amy J. February 17, 2015 The Irony in Nietzsche Friedrich Nietzsche writes in his essay “On Truth and Lies in a Nonmoral Sense” about the understandings of knowledge, truth, and morality. Interestingly the translation of the original title for Nietzsche’s work might have been “On Truth and Lie in the Extramoral Sense.” This is interesting because the translated version that is given for readers is “Nonmoral”; however another possible translation could have been “Extramoral” which shows that his writing may either be something not consistent with morality, but it may also be overly moral as well. Kenneth Burke writes in his work “Four Master Tropes”, about the tropes of metaphor, metonymy, synecdoche, and irony. He provides numerous definitions of irony as well as the three temptations of irony. Nietzsche’s writing and ideas about “truth and lies” are “ironic” based on the definition and examples Burke uses as well as the standard dictionary definition of irony. This irony accomplishes incongruity with what appears to be truth and lies and what it actually is; since there is no concrete truth, this is ironic in itself. Individuals often confuse and misuse the term ironic, but Kenneth Burke gives his opinion of what irony is. He says, “Irony arises when one tries, by the interaction of terms upon one another, to produce a development which uses all the terms…they are all voices, personalities, or positions, integrally affecting one another” (432)....
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...those who we have more intimate relationships with, and even ourselves, deceive us, just as we are deceitful to them. There are many degrees to lying, varying from little white lies, to blatant deception and perjury. The motives and desired outcomes of those who lie vary greatly from person to person, as well as the degree to which they lie. Most people would agree that there are times when it is acceptable to tell white lies or even a bigger lie for the greater good, if the truth is not something of importance. I will discuss several facets of deception. To start, I will describe several types of lies and give definitions and examples of them. Then, I will talk about some facts about the frequency at which we are deceptive on an average day, and situations in which we generally increase or decrease how deceptive we are. Next, I will discuss why lies are prevalent in relationships, and how deception creates friction in the workplace. After that, I will talk about how we deceive ourselves, and why, what motivates us to lie and then I will give some arguments about the possibility of detecting when someone is lying and if you can distinguish their lies from the truth. Lastly, I will discuss several disorders that may cause one to lie, whether it is purposefully or not, and how that can affect their life and the lives of those close to them. The...
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...the things that we want to see. Sometimes the truth is the only thing that hurts us the most. But in the long run, would you rather live in a world full of lies than to live with the truth? Many Filipinos believe that the youth is the hope of this nation. But I believe that the youth is not simply the hope of the nation. The youth itself is the nation. Every little decision of the youth affects the future of the society. Every little deed makes up someone’s history. Every youth can be a hero in their own paths. But are they given that chance and opportunity to change the nation’s future? The word of the youth is commonly considered to be futile. In the society we live in someone’s worth or sense is measured by the age and by the number of wrinkles on one’s forehead. The truth is, the voice of the youth is more sincere and more straightforward. It is an honest voice which is overruled by emotions without any limitations or thoughts to consider because the youth is as innocent as an infant but not as aged as an elder. It means that the youth is like a hybrid of two magnificent states, the pureness of the mind of a child and the wisdom developed through time floating in a place of equilibrium. What can the youth do? What can the youth contribute to ease that pain that was inflicted to the Filipinos by the Filipinos themselves? The youth cannot do much with their physical prowess, nor can we help by our financial capabilities. All we can do is to become an instrument and a reason...
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...The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd has many life lessons in it. It has examples of family problems, racial problems, and it also shows how love is not affected just because of race. In the book, Lily's life is compared to a bee's life constantly. From how she is lost without the queen bee, or in other words her mom, or how Lily needs the touch and care from loved ones just like the bees do. One epigraph from chapter nine says “ The whole fabric of honey bee society depends on communication- on an innate ability to send and receive messages, to encode and decode information”, this quote is related to not just this chapter, but this whole book because Lily is not always truthful about her life back in Sylvan and she does not tell the Boatwright sisters everything that is going on. In chapter nine, Lily has an internal conflict and begins to feel bad about her lies that she has been telling August. She wants to tell August the truth but she is afraid that the truth will do more bad than good and that August will call T. Ray to come get Lily. Some of the lies Lily has told August...
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...most or is the “tragic hero”. The tragic play Ghosts is an excellent example of this premature thinking. Readers are constantly thinking that Mrs. Alving is living a tragedy, but in actuality the tragedy falls upon the two children Regina and Oswald. From the work of Richard Sewall’s “The Vision of Tragedy”, we can conclude that classifying Mrs. Alving as the tragic hero is inaccurate because of her actions in the story and how those actions affect others. As we soon discover, the life of Mrs. Alving is pretty rough. Her husband was a habitual cheater and was almost completely absent when the two had the responsibility to raise their son Oswald. Having nowhere else to turn, Mrs. Alving decided to try to seek refuge in the family pastor, Mr. Manders. Unfortunately, his solution was for her to continue to do her duties as a mother and wife to bring her husband back to her. He tells her “No! we must do our duty, Mrs. Alving. And your duty was to cleave to the man you had chosen and to whom you were bound by a sacred bond” (19). And that's exactly what she did. She hid her husband’s marital flaws. She sent her son away so he did not have to face the truth about the destruction that was living with him at home. She also paid the maid, Joanna, 70 pounds of hush...
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