...Throughout the year’s happiness has been interpreted many ways by famous or ordinary people. Some have interpreted happiness from within saying you must make yourself happy by what you think is happiness. Some would say happiness comes from what you set out to do in life or setting goals. Some say happiness comes from pleasures or getting something you want like a video game or a purse that you like. Some have defined happiness as putting your faith in a deity then they will give you joy. There are some people who define happiness as how you make your happiness. Then you have those people who define happiness by having an item they worship. Personally, happiness is one of those feelings that sometimes you cannot define because it is hard to...
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...The discourse on whether or not money can buy happiness has been perpetuating itself for centuries. William Hazlitt, author of “On the want of Money” is among those who believe that money has the power to grant happiness. In the excerpt, Hazlitt utilizes a variety of rhetorical devices to express his position on money, and he makes his argument, that money can buy happiness, through the usage of pathos, diction, and tone. In his writing, Hazlitt potently makes use of pathos to strengthen his argument: money can buy happiness. Throughout the passage, examples of life without the comfort of financial stability and opulence are given. For example, Hazlitt argues that without money one would be, “scrutinized by strangers, and neglected by...
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...In the article, “Does Trying To Be Happy Make Us Unhappy?” Adam Grant argues that putting too much effort into life changes will actually make people unhappy. Grant starts his essay by pointing out the way two countries look at happiness. The U.S.A grants life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness for all, and the kingdom of Bhutan they have a national index to measure their happiness. Grant then goes on presenting a study done by a psychologist about happiness, this study reveals that the more pressure people put on trying to be happy the less happy they are. The author then gives an example about a friend’s life story to compare this theory. Tom speaks many languages and has a major in computer science, but once he accomplished these...
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...Pursuit of Happiness PSY/220 June 16th, 2013 Pursuit of Happiness The cultural and historical factors of the pursuit of happiness in America has to do with the declaration of independence which was written on July 4th 1776 the famous phrase is "Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness” This phrase gives examples of the various "unalienable rights" which the Declaration says all human beings have been given by their Creator and for the protection of which they institute governments. It is also the American dream and what the United States was built upon. For many happiness may mean being loyal to their country, bringing honor to their home, others might be graduating from high school and going to college, there are many factors to how each one will influence each person. It is important to note that the way happiness is portrayed for example in the United States, immigrants that come into the country to chase the American Dream including those from the United States. The portrait of the perfect family, the perfect job, and no problems to worry about keep everybody looking happy; this would be a stereotype of what happiness looks like. Studies have been conducted about the cultural factors of happiness and American people were asked what brings them happiness? The American people’s responses were going and finishing college, getting married, and the pursuit of self-success. In American culture there are unique internal attributes that distinguish Americans from others...
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...My mother and her sister People keep searching for happiness, even though they aren't sure what happiness is to them. If you ask people how they would define happiness, you would probably get a lot of different answers. Some would say that happiness to them would be money, some would say love, and some would say family and friends. If you look the word up in the dictionary, you will find the synonyms; pleasure, joys, delight etc., even not the dictionary has a good explanation of the word. It's the same about love, most people know what love is, but would never could define it. In this assignment I will analyze and interpret Jane Roger's short story "my mother and her sister". To put my interpretation into perspective, will I Include a discussion of the extract from Sarah Stickney's book, "To the Virgins, to Make Much of Time", from 1839, and Gustav Klimt's painting, "The kiss" from 1907-08. A: Lucy and the narrator is the main characters in this story. The story is about a mother, Lucy, and her sister Dorothy. When Dorothy dies, her sister moves in with her niece temporary. People react very different when someone close dies, sometimes they just close themselves into a box, and doesn't talk about it, this is, according to the narrator, how Lucy deals with her sisters' death. But considering how Lucy behaves, changing her habits, she does not do the things she used to do, for example cooking;" (...) roast lamb with Brussels and carrots from the garden", can you tell that...
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...looking at if the outcomes produce the best balance of good over bad for all concerned. Mill develops his theory of Utilitarianism through five major tenets; the greatest happiness principle, the definition of happiness, the hierarchy of pleasures, and the impartial spectator. The foundation of Utilitarianism lays in Mill’s definition of happiness and the Greatest Happiness Principle. Mill defines happiness as the promotion of pleasure and the avoidance of pain. After defining happiness, Mill provides what he calls the “creed” of the foundation of Utilitarianism, the Greatest Happiness Principle. The Greatest Happiness Principle holds that actions are right in proportion as they tend to promote happiness, wrong as they tend to produce the reverse of happiness. The Greatest Happiness Principle uses an utilitarian standard; for that standard is not the agent’s own greatest happiness, but the greatest amount of happiness altogether; and if it may possibly be doubted whether a noble character is always the happier for its nobleness, there can be no doubt that it makes other people happier, and that the world in general is immensely a gainer by it (Mill 516). Mill states that humans are able to experience a higher level of pleasure than animals in the statement: “To suppose that life has (as they express it) no higher end than pleasure—no better and nobler object of desire and pursuit—they designate as utterly mean and groveling, as a doctrine worthy only of swine” (Mill 519)...
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...In Silas Marner, George Eliot connects the appearance of Eppie to the disappearance of Silas’ gold. Eliot uses an equation of greater than (Eppie > Silas’ gold) to express the connection that they have to each other. Eliot makes it clear that Eppie replaces Silas’ gold but she goes deeper to show that Eppie does more than just replace Silas’ gold, Silas becomes a better man in every sense when he is confronted with being a good father to Eppie. In order to be a good father to Eppie, Silas becomes a better man in a religious sense. Dolly explains to Silas that in order to be a good father to Eppie he must include religion in Eppie’s life; “you must bring her up like christened folks’s children, and take her to church.” (121) Dolly specifically tells Silas that he must have Eppie christened, Silas being devoted to Eppie and her well being is willing to do anything and everything to be a good father to Eppie; “I want to do everything as can be done for the child.” (122) Silas is somewhat reunited with the Church and has a double baptism, both Eppie and him, showing that he is becoming a better man through fathering Eppie. Silas was repressed by his gold, but with Eppie he becomes revitalized; Silas not only becomes a better man in a religious sense he also has more interactions with people becoming a better man in a social sense. In the early chapters of he novel Silas is sequestered only weaving and enjoying the companion ship of his coins; “He handled them, he counted...
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...Phenomenology of Happiness What can make one person happy might not have the same effect on another. With this, it is difficult to find the perfect recipe for happiness. However what is true is that happiness is the one thing that people do not tire of. We continue searching for happiness even if we know that we will eventually tire of what provides it, and we will have to search all over again. For thousands of years, human behaviour has largely been about and driven by the pursuit of happiness. Even if we have not yet understood its complete nature up to now, we still continuously look for it. This unending pursuit is an evidence of how important happiness is to us. Happiness is a positive feeling and it is quite contagious. On the surface, it can be defined by a heartfelt laugh, a smiling face, or even a touching tear. Often times when we hear laughter, we associate it with happiness Whether you know the person who is laughing or not, you know that person’s laughter is a very strong indication of his or her happiness. This is also true when we see a smile, or when we witness tears of joy. It is often hard not to be at least quite affected by the happiness of another person. A person who is dear to you may express his happiness through stories that he will tell you and you in turn will be glad for him, and possibly for few moments, you may even forget your own worries and just join him in this feeling of elation. An old couple sitting in the park bench may radiate happiness through...
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...of their jobs. I believe that we are all in search of happiness, yet that there is not set equation to achieve such happiness. If for example, a person obtains all his happiness from his job, then he may see himself as successful. I believe that both carpe diem and deferred gratification are very important skills to have in order to reach success and happiness, whatever that means for the individual person. In terms of working at a job where you are fully happy, both play an extremely important role, and I believe that have a balance of both is the key to success. Working hard, concentrating and putting effort into your work are scientifically proven to lead to improved results. Your boss may be more likely to promote you if you have been working extremely hard, rather than if you have been taking days off to do other activities you enjoy, for example traveling. Hence, deferred gratification, resisting the temptation for instant reward and waiting for long-term benefits, is important and can lead to greater success, and eventually happiness. Yet, carpe diem is also of extreme importance because, I believe, it helps you in the long run as well. Living for the moment can be manifested in many different ways for different people. Some may believe that using humor in your every day life is seizing the day, as it paints your day with happier colors rather than leaving it all grey, focusing only on work. Many are shy to express their ideas through humor at work, believing that it shows...
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...Strict Parenting: Chinese or Westerner There are many different parenting techniques; each culture has their own way of raising their children, the end result is the same, we want what’s best for them and we want to see them happy. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” by Amy Chua, Chua talks about how the Chinese way is the best way to raise a child. She compares her style against “Westerner parents” in which Hanna Rosin defends the “Westerners” in her article “Mother Inferior?” Chua is a very strict mother, she considers herself what is called a “Chinese mother” which is a parenting style most Chinese mothers live by. Rosin is what Chua would call a “Westerner”. Who is to say one parenting technique is better than the other? Rosin brings up a good point in her article defending all the “Western parents”. The two techniques are similar in ways and different in others, but the sole purpose is to see your child grow into a healthy, happy, successful individual. Chinese mothers restrict their children from doing what they want to do, they believe that “they know what’s best for their children”, (Chua, 2011) which is true amongst both techniques. The difference is that Chinese mothers will restrict what their children can do and force them to study and practice for hours until they have perfected it. They want their children to be the best at everything they do, and this requires compromising fun and friends as a child. This Chinese style restricts them from having...
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...dictionary. Is life really about the 'money', the 'cash', who has the biggest gold chain or who drives the shiniest or fastest car, who sells the most albums or who has the most respect? Today happiness is viewed in many different ways. Everyone defines happiness according to their personal perspectives. Each individual describes their inner feelings in a way that can't be compared with another. Joy originally and logically means the inner state of well-being or a pleasurable or satisfying experience. It enables people to profit from their highest: thoughts, wisdom, intelligence, common sense, emotions, health, and spiritual values in life. Also joy can be anything a person finds success or good fortune in. For example, if a person enjoys reading books for fun, for their spare time so that is saying that the person finds happiness behind reading books or if a person enjoys spending time with their family so that is saying that person finds happiness being with their family. Most of the joy that we experience comes from the feeling of love. So many people look to their relationships, especially marriage to give them the joy that they cannot find on their own. Love is not enough to provide joy, then there must be many frustrated lovers in the world. The belief that love guarantees happiness is left over from the ideology of romantic love that tells us we will live happily ever after if we can only find the right person with whom to spend our life with. If we realize that love...
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...Ayad Al Saadi October 1, 2014 Purposeful Life Within this crowded and noisy life, I realized myself as a person having a name, personality, belonging and so on. All belong to me, like my parents, my brother, my game, my house and so like... Then, they told me go ahead and live your life; weave your way through the crowd; it’s your time, and you have the right to live and express yourself. Work hard, collect money, feel happy and enjoy your life ,then finally, make a family, have a nice house and car and a brilliant job to achieve the highest destination of success, and you are living a purposeful life. Amidst all the challenges from different religious, political parties, patriotic slogans, I must succeed and my success will be measured by how much my bank account is! Is that really my purposeful life? Is that really what is wanted from me to do? Are those my standards of happiness, joy and prosperity, as most people agree? I always was busy in evoking these questions and if so, why then do I feel miserable and a loser? Why do I feel boring most of the time in this beautiful land, where I am living with people from different cultures and backgrounds, in spite of developing technology and high standards of living that surround me everywhere? Or maybe this bored feeling is a normal behavior of human kind! So why do I still complain? Isn’t that enough for me to be happy and to enjoy this beautiful land which has been built and organized by our best and brilliant...
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...Chinese mothers If you ask parents all over the world, what they wish for their children, most of them would answer that their children should have a happy life. Does it mean that parents dictate every single step for their kids to take? When a child get used to follow orders from his/her parents all the time and doesn’t have any kind of freedom in his/her spare time, wouldn’t this dictatorial upbringing and zero tolerance toward the child lead to weak points and errors in child’s life? To get high marks at school and eventually having a good job does it equal to a happy life? What is most prioritized happiness or success in life? On the 8th January 2011, an article was published in the Wall Street Journal to explain the superiority of Chinese mothers. Amy Chua, who is a professor at Yale Law School and mother to two children, is the writer of “Why Chinese mothers are superior”. Amy Chua lives in USA, but of Chinese descent, narrates how to raise the stereotypical Chinese-success-kids by using the “Chinese mother” parenting method. In the article Amy Chua claims that the strict and “hardcore” upbringing method is better than the “loose” laissez faire upbringing method. She backs her claims up by arguing reasonably and referring to her life experiences, and thereby confirming her thoughts about parenting. At the beginning of article she presents a list of things that her daughters were never permitted to do. The list consists of activities that western parents consider...
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...The idea of happiness in my standards is very similar to Darrin McMahon article in the Pursuit of Unhappiness. In the passage McMahon writes, he expresses that happiness comes within ourselves, and differentiates the qualities of happiness and pleasure. He explains that happiness and pleasure is based on an individuals’ morals. Happiness in my opinion is usually established within oneself, who can find the joy in life and spread positivity to their surroundings. Many people mistake happiness for pleasure, because there is an illusion in peoples’ daily lives that watching television brings happiness. When in reality it is only fulfilling a short amount of joy. Essentially, there are many ways people satisfy their happiness without noticing their behavior. In the other story Inner Contentment, I understand the authors’ position that materialistic things should not make a person happy, but I disagree in some aspects. The reason being depending on the material an individual is purchasing, that product has an ability to build more confidence in a person. Some products people purchase, and collect can be useful for a long time and others for short term use. Some items I...
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...love for you. It was such a long time ago that we were last together. Because I had to leave for the World War 1 in 1917 and operated so many places, we lost contact with each other. You may think that I forget you, but my love, every minute we have been apart, I have felt like an incomplete man; I miss you so much. No words can express how much I love you. I think of you day and night, night and day, even in my dream I still see you. Every night, I star at the star and imagine that you’re here with me, dreaming of our future that is as bright as those stars. But last night, those stars seem vague as the tears blur my eyes. I though that everything was going perfectly between us, and no one could get in between you and me, but Tom has ruined everything in a hurry. I believe that your family has forced you to marry him for his money, but true love means more than some lousy money. Nothing can compare to our love. Money can’t bring you true happiness; it only lasts for a while and I think you know that. Daisy, you are the only one for me, and I can’t afford to lose you so easily. Please don’t make mistake that can affect your whole life and your happiness. My darling, please wait for me. The war is almost over, and I just need some time to create a fabulous world fit for you so that your family can’t force us to being apart anymore. We will do everything together. We will have a happy life forever ever. I will come back soon. Although my body is apart to you and far from you, my...
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