...Communication is a vital part of everyday life. Without communication we would not be allowed to express feelings, needs or even wants. Communication is more complicated than just speaking to one another. Some families suffer from the lack of communication and it is most important to keep a good communication flow through families. Effective communication is an important characteristic of strong, healthy families. Family communication is the way verbal and non-verbal information is exchanged between family members (Epstein et al.,1993). Communication involves the ability to pay attention to what others are thinking and feeling. In other words, an important part of communication is not just talking, but listening to what others have to say. Communication within the family is extremely important because it enables members to express their needs, wants, and concerns to each other. Open and honest communication creates an atmosphere that allows family members to express their differences as well as love and admiration for one another. It is through communication that family members are able to resolve the unavoidable problems that arise within the family. Just as effective communication is almost always found in strong, healthy families. Poor communication is usually found in unhealthy family relationships. Marriage and family therapists often report that poor communication is a common complaint of families who are having difficulties. Poor communication is unclear and indirect...
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...comfortable with. The first conversation I had took place with my brother, Jesse, at his house at the dining room table for about 1 hour, who I am very comfortable with, as we grew up together, even though I am 7 years older. The main topic we discussed was his opinion on the Federal Government Affordable Care aka "Obamacare", our conversation was in response to a comment we heard on YouTube made by Dr. Ben Carson. The second conversation took place at my house with my son's father who I have known 22 years, but I am not comfortable with him at all. The conversation lasted 25 minutes ,the main topic was his assisting financially with our son's last year of college, he doesn't see a need for our son to receive a bachelor's degree when he already had 3 AA and 1 AS. During my conversation with my brother, I noticed that he became rather stressed and tense ,which became evident to me when the conversation began. I listened to what he had to say with direct eye contact, which conveyed that I was listening intently to what he was saying, I made a conscience effort not to exhibit any facial expressions that might convey my thoughts before he had completed his point of view and I didn't want him to think that I had become bored with what he was saying. I noticed that by my relaxed posture it kept him calm, this topic tends to create a emotional response from him because he in the medical field. My arms nor my legs were crossed, however I do tend to use alot of hand gestures...
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...Baptist Church with approximately 150 active members located in the close-knit, small community of Shingle Hollow, NC. Mercy’s hallmark purpose, glorifying God by being and imitator of Christ, guides, directs, and develops the process of tailoring her I/S DISC relational style to best demonstrate fit and build rapport with Brody’s C/S DISC relational style. The solution-based, short-term pastoral counseling strategy is utilized to move Brody from an attending position in phase one to a willing position in phase two. The counselor recognizes Brody’s grief and depression as a result of the tragic loss of his mother and sister. Making matters worse, the noticeable anger presents from a hostile, tension filled relationship between Brody and his father, Bruce. Table of Contents...
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...Blackfeet Listening by Donal Carbaugh Growing up I was always intrigued by the wood cravings that my grandfather had in his home. My grandfather informed me that he learned the skill of wood carving from his father, who was taught by his father, a skill that was passed down through the generations. My grandfather also enlightened me on part of our family culture. We are part Native American, Blackfoot tribe to be specific. Naturally, when I saw the title of this article I was curious and reminded of my grandfather. What is Blackfeet listening? Do Blackfeet people listen differently from other people? The perception, the physiological factors that influence our views of the world (Adler and Proctor 104), I had was that Blackfoot people and my grandfather listen just the same as anyone else. Carbaugh sets out to educate on the deeply significant form of communication used among the Blackfeet people; silent reflection and nonverbal listening. This form of communication offers a “complex message about communication itself.” By learning this form of...
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...management| ____ 2. The statement that communication is systemic means that: a.|symbols construct our meanings| b.|communication changes over time| c.|there is a content level and a literal| d.|it is studied in an organized manner| e.|the various parts affect each other| ____ 3. The openness of a system is: a.|the extent to which a system strives to sustain equilibrium| b.|the extent of interaction within a system| c.|the extent to which a system affects and is affected by outside factors and processes| d.|the extent of absolute balance in a system| e.|the extent to which someone is willing to communicate| ____ 4. A father tells his son, "I don't care whether you like it or not, you are going to clean your room!" The relational level of meaning in the father's communication says: a.|the father has more power than his son| b.|the father wants the room cleaned| c.|the son won't clean his room without...
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...Phantom Tollbooth Quote “What you learn today, for no reson at all, will help you discover all the wonderful secrets of tomorrow,” says Norton Juster in The Phantom Tollbooth. Throughout a lifetime, a person is constantly gaining knowledge from the smallest to the most significant moments. I have gained most of my knowledge through the attendance of school. But, even when I spend my free time with companions, I learn new things. I learned an important life lesson by listening to a close friend of mine repeat a struggling life they were living and that is to always keep in touch with the ones you love. During the summer in the middle of the day I was standing at the center of an immense swinging bridge with a close friend of mine, Andrew. Andrew and I had been good friends for a few months now, but I noticed he never brought up the most personal information. On the bridge, it was a very relaxing and memorable moment for myself, so I decided to ask...
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...in Singapore. She just sighed and answered that it was tiring. And then, she asked me back the question that I asked earlier. I just answered that studying in Medan is easier than in Singapore. Because I’m a talkative person, I continued by telling her how I studied in UPH. When I was telling the story, she kept her eye contact with me and sat upright posture. From the way she sat and watching me, it made me know that she was listening to what I was saying. During that time, the food came late, which made me to tell more stories to her because I hadn’t met her for a year. She had not even checked her phone or looked at her watch which made me sure that she was really listening to me. She even gave me advices when I told her that I had problems with my group assignment members. When I told her my sad story, she also felt sad which clearly showed in her facial expression and when I told her some of the jokes, she also became happy and showed me a happy smile and laugh in her face. By giving advices, smile and laugh, it made me so happy that she was listening and understanding of what I said. She really is a good listener. 2. Chatting with Fanny during the break time After having a long lecture class in last Saturday, at last, I could have a break time during lunch time and was talking with Fanny, which is one of my best friends, after we had finished our lunch together. I was telling her about the Panama paper because it is a trading topic right now. I was very excited about...
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...CHAPTER I PROBLEM AND ITS SETTING INTRODUCTION Learning objectives have been around for a while but competencies are becoming a popular concept to include in curriculum. Learning Competencies includes listening, reading, speaking and writing are an educational term relating to the skills, behaviors and knowledge that are necessary to be successful. Learning competencies are more qualitative than quantitative, thus are less easily adaptable to a good scale. A unit of competency might be a task, a role, a function or a learning module. Academic Performance is often measured more by ear than today. Although education is not the only road to success in the working world, much effort is made to identify, evaluate and encourage the progress of students in school. Learning Competencies like increasing reading and writing vocabulary through wide like reading and word study, using appropriate comprehension strategies and effective before during, and after reading, using listening skills and using complete sentences, correct word order in sentences, these learning competencies that the students will develop. If a child fails to acquire these skills, his/her academic performance suffers. If a child is frustrated with his/her academic performance, chances are he/she drops out of school and eventually reverts to illiteracy BACKGROUND OF THE STUDY This study will be concluded...
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...he was around his father. Ashton was worried that if he practiced forgiveness, he would be opening himself up to mistreatment. However, with using forgiveness Ashton did found freedom and saw improvement in their relationship when he became more selective about when and how to confront his father versus when to forgive his father for his failings in their relationship (Rosenzweig, 2013). Current research describes forgiveness as an ongoing process and not just a one-time phenomenon. Forgiveness is interconnected with un- forgiveness which is the inability to let go of what has been done toward you and intrapersonal processes that doesn’t dismiss nor excuse what the wrongdoer has done, but as an alternative, centers the focus on how one must cultivate their own healing process (Rosenzweig, 2013). However, when considering the healing process it is very important that one knows their reasons for forgiving a person. According to Baumgardner & Crothers (2009) study, “people who forgave out of a sense of obligation rather than love showed no decrease in anger and related to physiological responses such a blood pressure” (p. 234). This means when forgiving someone your heart must be in the right place or you won’t truly be healing and experiencing overall relationship well—being. Moreover, another form of mindfulness would be active empathic listening (AEL). AEL is a technique used by salesman during conversation that intertwined classic forms of listening with empathy to...
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...his family and the society at large in a way that his brother would easily understand. The interesting resolution in the end of the story is weaved by a touch of musical education and appreciation: how feelings are manifested in music and why good music is born. This documents how repressed feelings of marginalized sectors are translated in music and song. Albert sees such music particularly blues as “a state of being and as music” that is the bone of the story. This reminds us of the historicity and wealth of Black music and artistry that even White Americans later would hail and emulate. Listening is a simple skill yet a hard one for humans. It entails the discipline of valuing others and paying deeper attention to other’s feelings, thoughts and opinions. Individuals may have tendency to be egocentric that sometimes they are not aware that they have not been listening or are not listening enough to others. Instead, they are more drowned in their own pathetic world. This leads to miscommunication and misunderstanding as well as petty quarrels to suicidal acts that may have been prevented in the first...
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...words mean so he thinks they have different meanings. “But” Statement: A statement in which the second half cancels the meaning of the first half. Example: Radio wants to go to an away game with the football team but the administrator at the school says no. Coach explains to Radio that he isn’t allowed to go and coach tells him “I’d like to take you to this game but, the administration staff won’t allow you to ride on the bus with the team.” Emotive Language: Language that conveys the sender’s attitude rather than simply offering an objective description. Example: When the players’ fathers meet up at the barbers and talk about Coach, Coach walks in and seems so surprised that everyone is meeting to talk about Coach and what he is doing for Radio. Euphemism: A pleasant term submitted for a blunt one in order to soften the impact of unpleasant information. Example: When the quarterback’s father is talking to Coach he should have added a euphemism when talking so the impact wouldn’t be so bad and Coach might not have gotten as angry. Chapter 6 Chronemics: The study of how people use and structure time. Example: Radio is a movie about football and time and the way you use and value your time in football is very important. Disfluencies: Nonlinguistic verbalizations Example: Radio is mentally handicapped and he often uses filler words such as um, er, ah, etc. Emblems: Deliberate nonverbal behaviors with precise meanings, known to virtually all members of a cultural group...
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... * Online Test Tell me about yourself.@ : Home > HR Interview > HR Interview Room | | | Points to remember before you attend this interview question: * Assume, now you are sitting in front of the HR manager. * Take the initiative to attend this question and tell your real answers. | Abdul Rahim said: (Thu, Mar 6, 2014 08:50:16 PM) | | | Good morning to all, It's my pleasure to introduce my self in front of you. I am very thanks full to you for giving this opportunity. I am Abdul Rahim, basically I am from Ongole Dist of Andhrapradesh. I Have completed my M.Sc in microbiology from acharya nagarjuna university. We are 7 members in my family including to me. My father was expired my mother is house wife. My hobbies are listening to music and reading books. My strengths are: 1. Hard working. 2. Good team player. 3. Learn very quickly. My weaknesses are: 1. I never leave my work unless and until it should be finish. My short term goal is to pass this interview and start a good career. And my long term goal is to be a successful personality in my field and the society as well. Once again thank you Sir/ madam. | No comments yet | Your comments please ... | +112 -40 | Mather Singh Bisht said: (Thu, Mar 6, 2014 04:10:51 PM) | | | Very good afternoon ma'am/sir. Its my pleasure to introduce front of you. My name is MahendraSingh Bisht I am 21 year old I live in nainital. My qualification...
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...Howell Social work 270 Professor Nyiraneskuye 3/25/14 The Hidden Homeless I have previously volunteered at the Mainspring house in Brockton but I never Have eaten among the homeless before. Mainspring house is a homeless shelter that also partners with father bills which is another homeless shelter, Father Bills and Mainspring House have locations in Brockton, Quincy and Taunton. Father Bills and Mainspring take in the homeless, feed them a meal and then let them stay the night before they have to leave the next day. They also have permanent housing programs that the homeless can get into. The mission statement on their website helpfbms.org states " The mission of Father Bills and Mainspring House is to help homeless people obtain a home by giving temporary shelter and food , finding safe and affordable housing and providing permanent housing with supportive services Father Bills and Mainspring helps people who are homeless or at risk of being homeless to achieve self-sufficiency." According to their website 15 percent of the adults that are sheltered are employed but are still homeless, and 388 of the people who are sheltered are children. While I was driving to the facility I was extremely nervous, while I was waiting in the line outside for dinner what really surprised me the most was what the homeless...
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...negotiation is to get a win-win situation. The win-win situation occurs when all parties in the negotiation benefit through cooperation. During this process, the other key concepts of the negotiation are used as well. These concepts include managing interdependence, mutually adjusting to each other, creating value, and managing conflicts. Although these concepts are essential to any negotiation, communication and personality roles within the negotiation rise to the forefront as these are used to analyze different non-verbal communication levels, the proper communication channels to use, and what to listen for to negotiate better. . The Role of Communication In the role of communication, the acceptable forms of questioning, active listening, positive eye contact, positive body language, and non-polarizing language is normally used to encode and decode messages that are carried from one party to another....
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...LISTENING: http://www.englishclub.com/listening/everywhere.htm TEST: http://www.englishteststore.net/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=10427&Itemid=434 http://www.youproxytube.com/browse.php?u=NqyEELUDpo3Z2KcyWfykFJvHrPeYF1A2ZdoRY7wOex3sgZJNYes%3D&b=29 http://www.youproxytube.com/browse.php?u=NqyEELUDpo3Z2KcyWfykFJvHrPeYF1A2ZdoRfdIVRR%2FUiqJMP5Y%3D&b=29 indefinite exercise: http://www.englishexercises.org/makeagame/viewgame.asp?id=1555 choose the correct answer: 1) Mary volleyball on Mondays. 2) I every weekend. 3) Chris and Pat to school at 7:30 AM. 4) The students the homework in the afternoon. 5) Martha a tree. Write the previous senteces into the NEGATIVE form. Use "DO NOT" (not don´t) or "DOES NOT" (not doesn´t), please. a) Camila the homework at home. b) I my bike everyday. c) John to music. d) Tom football at the club on Tuesdays. e) My father his brand new car. f) You the newspaper on Sundays, g) My sister T.V. in the evening. h) Lucy and I at 9 o´clock everyday. i) Danielle home at 6:30. Complete the questions, then answer. 1) you up at 8 AM? Yes, . 2) Sylvia the homework? No, . 3) your mother your bedroom? Yes, . 4) you English? Yes, . 5) Clarisa a tree? No, . http://www.englishclub.com/grammar/verb-tenses_present_quiz.htm Test Form of Affirmative Sentences - Part 1 Choose the correct form. 1. We sometimes books...
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