...doubt's & to come out of it... IS MASTURBATION A SIN? To start with,masturbation is self service by which one derives pleasure;it's a sexual stimulation of the genitals, usually to the point of orgasm, it's usually performed using the hands, fingers, everyday objects, or dedicated sex toys. So the question: Is it sinful for a child of God to masturbate? The sincere and simple answer is that, it is biblically sinful based on these three points: (1) IT'S DISHONORING YOUR BODY. Pastors and preachers who claim that masturbation is not a sin are the same people who say a godly woman can dress any how; their base is that God's is not concern about what you do with your body, watch out! Such people believe God is only after your mind or your heart, and your body is none of His business, you can dress half naked as a woman, you can wear earrings as a man, perm your hair like woman; you can smoke, drink, it is your body, normal habit, and none of God's business. Such teaching of your body is not God's business is satanic and unbiblical. God is interested in your body as well as your soul, God wants you to keep your heart holy as well as your body. Romans 12:1, "I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service." Your heart is the throne of God, and your body is His temple; when you defile God's temple - your body - with masturbation or any uncleanness, you expose yourself...
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...masturbate on a regular basis. Masturbation doesn't cause any harm to your body until and unless you over do it. Here, we give you five reasons why you should masturbate. Masturbation is healthy: Masturbation is one of the best ways to stay healthy and has many health benefits. It can cure diseases like insomnia, stress, anxiety, menstrual cramp, depression, and it can even stimulate your immune system. Some researchers say it's also a form of exercise; it can burn a few calories even though it can't match up to gym workout. It feels really good: Fantasies make masturbating so much fun. So, fantasize about having sex with celebrities, porn stars, strangers and what have you. By masturbating, you can have one of the greatest orgasms of your life. Masturbation is safe: What's the only 100% safe form of sex? It's masturbation. You don't need to worry about getting pregnant or getting an STD. Unlike sex, masturbation is free of cost. It's your own body, do whatever you want. Masturbation is natural: Masturbation is normal, and it's a natural act. It is a common form of autoeroticism. Forget the myths and misconceptions regarding masturbation. It will never lead to infertility, sexual weakness or loss of libido. Even animals like monkeys, dogs, and cats masturbate. Masturbation improves sexual relationship: You can learn many things from masturbation. It can improve your sexual relationships with your partner. Women can explore their own body through masturbation; they can determine what...
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... sexual arousal disorder, orgasmic disorder, and sexual pain disorder. The sexual dysfunction that I will be discussing is orgasmic disorder. The first category that I will be discussing is called the female orgasmic disorder. This disorder causes women to have a difficult time achieving an orgasm, if they can achieve it at all. Some women can achieve orgasms through masturbation even though they have this disorder. Women with this disorder usually do not receive enough clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse to be able to achieve orgasm. Women may also either be trying to hard or have some type of sexual anxiety that will not allow them to achieve an orgasm. Some women will also experience premature ejaculation but most of the time they will not realize this has happened. The second category that I will be discussing is called the male orgasmic disorder which is a little bit different from the female orgasmic disorder. Males can usually reach an orgasm but sometimes it may happen either too soon or it will take too long. Some males can still experience an orgasm through masturbation or oral sex. When males cannot achieve an orgasm they may be experiencing psychical problems such as multiple sclerosis, neurological damage, issues with drugs or alcohol, sexual guilt, performance anxiety, or anger towards that person. It is more common for men to have premature ejaculation. There are several approaches to treating orgasmic disorder. First of all...
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...psychiatrists and psycholo-gists have attempted to foist on me, i.e., “women are not Nancy Friday 240 sexually stimulated by viewing a man’s body and genitals.” I am eminently qualified to disqualify that statement! Mainly because I have had the courage – yes, BALLS! – and the conviction to test reality in the public domain. I am a professional fine arts painter of some twenty-three years’ standing. My philosophy is based on what makes my cock hard, and my nuts tingle. A person who cannot stand naked before me is not self-accepting. I despise with my whole being American standards of physical beauty. The 40-26-38 female ideal and the twelve-inch cock, wide as an ax handle, are repressive weapons. One of my greatest sexual fantasies is masturbation while several women watch. If women envy men at all, it is not for the penis per se, but rather for the biological capacity to ejaculate as proof of orgasm. I’d like to masturbate for you so you can “see” that lovely loss of control (orgasm) as my gyzym shoots and gushes out the head of my cock. I like to start out with my penis soft and shriveled up so a woman can watch the phallic metamorphosis: big, bigger, biggest! In my fantasy I find the perfect voyeuse – a “peeping Jane.” She is very authoritarian. She comes to my room where I am stretched out naked on my bed. She commands me to dress, but I decline. About an hour later, I hear her coming down the hallway with the medicine cart, so I just continue masturbating slowly with Johnson’s...
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...Sex addicts come from dysfunctional families and 90 % of them suffer emotional abuse, 70% physical abuse, and 81% sexual abuse (Miller, 2005). This paper will give a summary on the form of sex addiction. In addition, this will discuss the addiction, sex addiction behaviors, and the treatment. What is sex addiction? Sex addiction is when an individual has strong intense sex desires. A person that’s addicted to sex has repeated sex thoughts and the sex thoughts make it impossible to function normally. The sex thoughts overpower a person wellbeing which makes it hard to engage in healthy relationships. Sex addicts suffer from distorted thinking which leads to justifying and rationalizing his or her behaviors (Herkov, 2012). In addition, some sex addicts tend to put the blame on other for his or her issues. However, individuals who are addicted to sex often deny there is a problem because of the shame and guilt. The addiction first starts in the mind. Once the addiction gets into the mind it moves to fantasy, ritual, acting out, and the big shame happens. It is the shame that keeps repeated sex behaviors and isolation. Sex addicts live a double life. The double life includes: trying to have healthy relationships with those around him or her and the sex addiction as a secret. The sex addict problem is not the sex but it is the pain he or she is facing (Miller, 2005). Once the pain is dealt with or discovered, than the sex addict will be set free. There...
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...The Big M Masturbation is not a common topic of conversation. The topic of masturbation is one that is kept in private. Masturbation is only the “manipulation of the genital organs for pleasure, usually to orgasm… [also known as] self-manipulation, but it can also be used to describe manipulation of or by a sexual partner, exclusive of sexual intercourse”, people speak of it as if it is a secret(“Masturbation” Encyclopedia). ‘Why?’ the question some people may wonder. It is because masturbation is an immoral act. Masturbation is an immoral act because it denies a chaste life and gives a false sense of what sex is about. Masturbation also leaves a feeling of emptiness leading to actual sex or chronic masturbation. Masturbation denies a chaste life that was meant to be saved for both God and spouse for after marriage. It denies this chaste life because a chase life is “having the strength to use your sexuality according to God’s plan… [doing this] glorifies God with your body” (Evert 17). God gave everyone the gift of virginity to be shared with another who will also share their own gift of virginity. This was the original plan God had in mind, and whenever God’s plan is carried out it makes Him happy. Others may argue that “the Bible does not actually address masturbation directly… that much of the religious opposition to masturbation is based on an interpretation of a biblical passage about a man named Onan who used the withdrawal method to prevent pregnancy… [Realistically...
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...Sexual Techniques Sha'Tera Harris PSY265 September 15, 20011 Erica Jones Sexual Techniques The first form of sexual technique discussed in the text was masturbation. The text states that the purpose of masturbation is self-stimulation in the hopes of achieving sexual gratification. Next the text discusses sexual fantasies, which can be used by one or both partners in hopes to increase arousal. Finally is foreplay, which involves kissing cuddling, touching, and oral-genital contact. Kissing is not only used as a form of sexual foreplay but also as a form of personal expression. In the context of sexual technique kissing is described in two forms deep kissing and simple kissing. Simple kissing is a kiss with the mouth closed. Deep kissing is kissing when the mouth is open and the tongue into each other’s mouth. Cuddling is described as holding one another in an intimate fashion. Touching can range in form from simply holding hands to caressing a person’s erogenous areas. Lastly is oral-genital stimulation. In women the medical term for oral genital stimulation is cunnilingus, while in men the medical term is fellatio. The roles and connections between touching, kissing, and foreplay would be when two people start kissing and touching and it leads into foreplay and later sexual intercourse. Simple kissing is when the mouth stays closed, yet when the mouth is open and the tongue is in use it is considered to be deep kissing. Touching the partner’s body and or genitals...
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...Childhood Development and Sexual Behavior In my text I have come to realize many things about sexual behavior in children, from infancy to adolescence. Many parents like me have no clue how to handle situation with their children when it comes to sex. Sexual behavior can start as soon as the child is born. In some cases when you notice that your child smiles and giggles when you are changing their diapers, well it is because you are stimulating the babies and it is a degree of masturbation for them. Also in this stage (0-2 years old) curiosity is common and you will notice the child touching their private areas. Sexual behavior in children ages 3 to 8 years old can also be confusing for parents as well. During this stage you might notice your child touching themselves and how curious they will become about the opposite sex. Masturbation will start to take place and it is perfectly normal and should not be handled as they are doing something wrong. At the ages of 9 to 13, this is the best time to talk to your children about sex and their bodies. They are going to learn from other children and I feel that it is best to tell them than let their friends tell them. At this age the child will masturbate in order to reach orgasm. When the child reaches adolescence the parent will know that the child shows a lot of attention to the opposite sex and that the teenager has begun puberty. Boys and girls handle puberty different and so does their bodies, so the parents need...
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...Abstinence means choosing not to have intercourse. There are all kinds of ways to accomplish this-- you may abstain from all sexual contact, or you may kiss and pet and even have oral sex. The important point is that there is no penis-to-vagina contact. None. The man secretes sperm-laden fluid long before he ejaculates, which can result in pregnancy as well as transmission of STD's. Don't push your luck on this point. If abstinence is your only form of protection, it must be practiced scrupulously. However, the reward for doing so is 100% reliability. It's an all-or-nothing deal which many women are quite satisfied with. One word of caution. If you choose to engage in sexual contact without intercourse, you are sharing the responsibility of protection with your partner to a greater degree than with other methods. Once you get the man to put on the condom, or to wait until you get your diaphragm in, or whatever, the precaution has been taken. But with abstinence, you must constantly be aware of what actions could be dangerous, and you are partly relying on him to remember also. Abstinence is a more intimate form of protection than most other methods. I recommend practicing it only with someone you really trust, or else practicing it to the extreme (ie, no sexual contact). Abstinence should not be confused with a technique called "withdrawal," in which the man does penetrate, but pulls out before ejaculation. Withdrawal does not work! The pre-ejaculate has plenty of...
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...Infant boys can have erections starting in utero and throughout the first few weeks of life. Sexual arousal in infant girls is less detectable but there have been reports of lubrication and genital swelling. They may have involuntary muscle contractions that simulate an adult orgasm, especially in boys, however they are not able to ejaculate. Masturbation to orgasm is rare, although, masturbating is typical for infants starting as early as 5 months old. Sexual curiosity can start at around 12 to 15 months old and is usually shown by playing games like doctor, wanting to take a shower with a parent, or watching a sibling change clothes. Between the ages of 3 to 8 years old, sexual curiosity starts to move from the self, to being curious about other children’s bodies as well. There have been several studies to try to figure out what is normal childhood sexual behavior. Most of the sexual behavior that is experienced during this age is normal but parents and other adults close to the child need to keep their eyes open for signs of sexual abuse. The material suggests that most childhood sexual abuse is done with someone close to a child so parents need to really listen to their child if they come to them saying something is wrong. Preadolescence is the age where children start to form same-sex friendships with people they can share secrets with. At this age, children hear and see many sex related things and go to their friends to talk about those things while trying to figure...
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...make you feel good. Masturbation can be helpful if one is in a sexual rut. * Successful masturbation can often times be relaxing. It can make you feel less stressed. * Porn can teach you new things you may want to try in the sheets. You may discover a new position you might want to try. * Porn allows you to explore secret fantasies. We all have sexual fantasies but we never express these fantasies because we feel too embarrassed. With the use of porn one is allowed to express their fantasies in private. You don’t need to hold back with porn. Alex. (2012). Is Porn Good You? Attraction Institute, 5. Retrieved from http://attractioninstitute.com/is-porn-good-for-you/ * Porn could potentially bring a couple closer together. It could help the couple feel more comfortable with new ideas. * It provides women with sexual information. * It strips away real world confusion about sex. * It breaks cultural and political stereotypes, allowing women to interpret sex for themselves. * It is the great leveler of shame. * It is sex therapy. * If the action of masturbating in and of itself was inherently negative or positive everyone would experience negative consequences when one has masturbated. Saad, Gad. "Pornography: Beneficial or Detrimental?" Psychology Today. N.P, 22 Jan. 2010. Web. 20 Apr. 2015. <https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/homo-consumericus/201001/pornography-beneficial-or-detrimental>. * Masturbation can...
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...success. Don't Count Your Days If you are counting your days, you are already admitting defeat. You're just seeing how long you can go till you lose. Sure, when you start it can be helpful to count your days to help you see patterns. But, ultimately, counting your days is self-defeating. Instead, just tell yourself this is something you aren't going to do anymore. Focus on the Harm, Not the Benefits Often you give up and masturbate because you say to yourself, "Oh well, guess I won't get those benefits for now. I'll try again later." Here's the thing: We are motivated more by pain than we are by pleasure. So what is the trick here? Tell yourself it is just as bad as smoking! And when it comes to your social life, it really is. Masturbation and porn feed your escapism. It re-enforces your apathy and learned helplessness as you numb yourself with the drug that is your bad habit. Remember, relationships are the key to your happiness and success. The only way to connect, the only way to really get motivated to connect, is to stop feeding this bad habit or yours. Focus on Your Dream Every day you go without masturbating is another day you have extra energy and motivation to accomplish your dreams. You know that's simply true. When you get the urge, focus on your dreams, focus on what makes you come alive. If your desire for your dreams is stronger than that temporary pleasure, it'll give you the willpower to not do it. So when you get the urge, yes, tell yourself it is...
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...overwhelming evidence suggest that the statement is accurate. 2. A Definition is a word or group of words which attempt to give meaning to another word or symbol. Definitions gain their power from acceptance, not from being true or false. (Does not use scientific evidence). 3. A False statement (Myth) is a statement in which it is possible to gather evidence of the scientific kind and the overwhelming evidence suggests that the statement is not accurate. a. A myth is something 4. A Value is a statement in which it is not possible to gather evidence of the scientific kind to determine if the statement is accurate. b. Good-bad, attractive-unattractive, sin-morally upright, irresponsible-responsible, lazy etc. c. Masturbation in the shower is wrong is a value statement. (because of the word wrong). Ways to say the SAME (=) Value 1. As IF it were FACT a. It is WRONG to have sex before marriage. b. It is not GOOD to have sex before marriage. 2. As a DEMAND c. YOU SHOULD not have sex before marriage. d. YOU MUST not have sex before marriage. 3. As Opinion, belief, or preference e. I do not like having sex before marriage. f. I do not believe in sex before marriage. g. I prefer not having sex before marriage (implies equality). h. I prefer you not having sex before...
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...understanding of what we learned through society or from our families growing up about sexuality but we don’t understand the complexity of it. In high school, they teach us about abstinence, protection and dangers of STD’s but we were never taught about knowing ourselves and our body or knowing about people with different sexual preferences. I think sexual orientation is something one has to figure out for themselves not by the popular means from society. Having many or only one partner should be up to the people that’s involved in the relationship. I think as long as everybody is honest with each other and knows what kind of relationship they’re in, they should be able to maintain their relationship without society getting involved. Society sees masturbation as thing disgusting thing no one should ever mention in public when the truth is everybody masturbates and it is as normal of a sexual activity as having sex. However, there should be some lines that shouldn’t be crossed in my opinion such as incest and beastiality because it’s not healthy or safe. I was raised in a culture where sexuality isn’t even a topic to discuss because heterosexuality is the only acceptable way and for a brief period of time I believed that too until I went out to the real world and connected with people with different sexual orientation and just simply learned. This is why I think out school system needs to teach students about sexual orientation and safe and healthy ways for them to know...
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...Emotional Confusion in “Sex Without Love” In the poem “Sex Without Love” by Sharon Olds, two contradicting ideals are discussed. This poem is a comparison between the traditional belief of sex only within the parameters of love and marriage versus the belief that love is purely an act of pleasure and can be taken up independently, without emotional strings attached, except Sharon Olds, she cannot understand how others do not become attached with the acts of pleasure. Olds portrays via her imagery, analogies, and philosophical explorations. You find out which is the side she truly understands. The opening line begins with the question at hand, “How do they do it, the ones who make love without love?”(1) Olds’ is asking, ‘How do people manage to be physically intimate, without emotional intimacy?’ Our bodies are our temples. People have been taught that their bodies should not be disrespected in an act like sex without love. Sex is an act that has been deemed only appropriate within the confines of marriage. Religions like Christianity, Catholicism, Islam, etc. have taught their believers that sex before marriage, a partnership based on love, fidelity, and monogamy, is sinful. The Bible seems to portray the man and the woman as two puzzle pieces that are meant to fit together as one unit. This is essentially what marriage is. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall Ugalde 2 become one flesh” Obviously, sex is between...
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