...might commit. Even though we cannot make everything perfect in our way, at least the idea of doing our best and trying is better than telling ourselves that we suck and cannot be successful. Alfred Adler’s theory of striving for perfection is very helpful to us because there is always something at the back of our mind telling us that we Can do something right or do our best. In addition, Adler’s Psychological Types are also helpful so that we may have a source or basis in understanding different behaviors. Adler’s Birth Order is also a good basis to understand the people in our family and surroundings. The idea that our siblings can also affect us shows that Adler broaden his horizon rather than focusing on the parent-child relationship. Regarding his counseling method, I like his idea and stand that the counselor should not look too authoritative so that the patient will not feel taunted. Letting the patient feel that you are helping gives them the chance to break the wall between the two of you leading to a clear communication and helpful type of counseling. Lastly, the idea that the patient has the power to give up his/her neurotic lifestyle shows that even in drastic times, we can do something to save ourselves if we really wanted to. For me, striving for perfection means using our will to do what is good or right regarding the difficulty level of events that we...
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...Burke uses the word “Perfection” in multiple examples through out his writings. In his book “Rhetoric of Motives” he related perfection with finishedness, “Its ‘perfection’ or ‘finishedness,’ if translated into the terms of tragic outcome, would entail the identifying of that motive with the narrative figure whose acts led to some fitting form of death . . . (the perfection being by the same token death, quite as the attaining of a given end moves death as such effects as went with the attaining of the end. (14)” When thinking of the word perfection I agree with the thought of finishedness, but I did not connect it to death until I stopped to think about it. When you think of death the first thought that comes to my mind is not perfection, but when thinking about heaven then I see the tie in. Heaven in the perfect place, which goes with the fact of when you pass away that is where you go, which is perfection....
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...Immanuel Kant was born during a time of great discovery in the fields of the physical sciences, by the likes of Sir Isaac Newton. These discoveries included Newton’s three laws of motion as well as the explanation of gravity, all of which were discovered via methods which are now referred to as the scientific method. At the time, these methods were known to be used by empiricists, who maintained that the objects of sensation are the only proper objects of knowledge, that all ideas and knowledge are derived from the senses; through reasoning and observation. In contrast to the thoughts of empiricists, another school of thought existed, referred to as continental rationalism. Rationalists argued that some knowledge and ideas were not derived strictly through sensation, but could also be innate to reason. These innate ideas would give knowledge of a greater reality, which would be known without having to be realized by the traditional senses. This was referred to as being the supersensible reality, in which God existed. As empiricism believed that knowledge was of the sensible reality, that which can be sensed, led to admitting that there is no reality outside of what can be sensed. As such, there could be no immortality of the soul or of the freedom of will; both being unable to be proved through the senses. This proved to have great implications with what is taught through religion, as there is a supersensible reality in religion. Although both rationalists and empiricists...
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...right and wrong based on one’s beliefs. Topics about ethics often bring about in-depth discussions about individual characteristics concerning virtues, values, and moral concepts. The Virtue Theory, Utilitarianism, and Deontological Ethics are theories that involve those aspects of ethics. These theories have commonalities; however, there are differences in the theories as well. The Virtue theory often refers to character or ethics. The word “virtue” comes from the Greek word for excellence. This theory suggests one should strive for excellence or perfection. There is a strong correlation between this theory and the U.S. Army motto, “Be All That You Can Be.” Nike’s “Just Do It” also suggests one should push themselves to the limit and strive for perfection. In addition to striving for excellence, one bases the quantity of character on the length of time that one continually achieves that excellence. If one is constantly striving to be good, but slips, have they lost all character and no longer hasethics? The virtue theory suggests it is a collection of actions that develops into who a person becomes over time (Boylan, 2009). Utilitarianism is a group-based theory that suggests one will do what is morally right for the greater good of the team or group involved. It is very similar to the “democratic beliefs the United States was built upon” (Boylan, 2009). Unfortunately, this theory bases one’s morality on the good of a group. Sometimes the good of an individual should take...
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...First, The Crucible Acts 1-2 will be summarized. People begin to talk about witches and the town becomes frightened. Because the “cursed” girls accused so many people, the court decided to hold trials. They began arresting people that looked guilty at first, because of who they are. After a while, innocent people who went to church were arrested. Since the court wanted to rid their world of evil, they began to hang and arrest innocent people. Next, the events in “The Birthmark” will be discussed. A male chemist was married to a beautiful lady. The lady had a red birthmark on one of her cheeks that looked like a hand. The husband despised this mark and wished to remove it. The wife was weary about this at first, but then she realized...
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...was a common benefit to society. Although Franklin was educated as Presbyterian, he treated all religion with respect. He believed that even the worst of religions had some good. Franklin did not let his religion tie him down. He often did not attend public worship and thus received admonishment from his minister. Once Franklin heard his minister’s five points he became conflicted. As a result he withdrew from his church and wrote his own prayer entitled “Articles of Belief and Acts of Religion” Franklin’s most arduous project was his attempt at moral perfection. He established his thirteen virtues to guide himself onto the right path. By charting his journey for moral perfection, Franklin was able to examine himself and learn from his faults. However as time went by, Franklin realized that it was not possible for him to become perfect. He acknowledged his failure and pointed out that his journey toward moral perfection shaped him to become a happier man. Franklin concluded in his memoir that pride was a moral imperfection that was difficult to subdue. Franklin uses ethos to establish credibility as role model for the young men of America to become successful. By highlighting his own experience with family, education, morals, and religion, Franklin establishes his authority on success. The library that Franklin began from scratch served to emphasize the importance of contributing to society and education. Even todays’ libraries exist to provide books to people. Franklin’s...
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...Combatting Reality in Death of a Salesman The public has certainly had its effects on society through the years. It has brought forth fads and trends and assigned people to follow those trends. It has recognized and brought to fame individuals. It has exposed and then censored others. It has taught us what is morally right and wrong. But sometimes we don’t endorse or condone what the public brings to us. Arthur Miller demonstrates this to readers through Willy Loman in the play, Death of a Salesman. Willy, enervated by demanding work, struggles to come to terms with what reality has presented to him. With so much seemingly missing in his life, Willy turns to materialistic and egotistical ways in an attempt to compensate. The best way to...
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...One reading One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest can relate to the pressure of society's oppressive rules in many ways. Kesey's usage of metaphors relating people to machines and the hospital to a factory leaves a relatable factor to models in the world, setting a standard for people being perfect. Kesey's usage of imagery helps the readers realize that they are too blinded to see what is going on, and need to look through the fog to see the truth. Finally, Kesey's usage of setting taking place just after World War II helps the reader realize that in the book, the Nurse is striving for everyone to be perfect in her image, hoping that everyone realizes that society is doing this to them, wanting to look a certain way to be perfect. Striving for perfection is something society dictates we all do, but at what cost? One cannot expect to be an individual if everyone decides to follow the same path to supposed perfection, and losing your individuality is not worth someone else’s definition of...
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...Embraer is a Brazilian aerospace company that produces commercial, military, executive, agricultural aircraft and provides aeronautical services. The Cessna Aircraft Company is an American general aviation aircraft manufacturing corporation headquartered in Wichita, Kansas. Best known for small, piston-powered aircraft, Cessna also produces business jets. Market Segmentation Cessna Aircraft are sold to private businesses, governments, individuals, freight airlines, charter airlines, and air taxi companies. Cessna has several competitors domestically and internationally in various market segments. Cessna’s aircraft compete with other aircraft that vary in size, speed, range, capacity and handling characteristics on the basis of price, product quality and reliability, product support and reputation. Embraer (ERJ) operates in the following four major business segments: commercial aviation, defense and security, executive jets, and agricultural aircraft. Commercial aviation is Embraer’s largest business segment, contributing about 52% of the company’s total sales. Applying the concepts of determinants of service quality by Parasuraman, Zeithaml, & Berry (1985) to Embraer and Cessna Reliability: Cessna’s Promise “Safety is the top priority for Cessna when designing and manufacturing aircraft.. Combining both active and passive safety features ensures that every new aircraft is designed and equipped to deliver on the trust that passengers place in both pilot...
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...Psychoanalytic Personality Denisha Hernandez PSY/250 Mr. Previc The stages of Freud’s theory and personalities is the oral stage where the child wants that type of comfort by wanting their mother’s breast or bottle to sooth their selves from whatever type of distress they went through which would be considered as regression. I would agree with Freud that the oral stage is accurate. When I was young I would suck my thumb to make my problem go away. The anal stage would be the related with regression as well. The anal stage is potty training stage. Where accidents may occur and children or in some cases adult have this happen to them. The other stage is the phallic stage where you are aware of the male and female. Learning that a female have these body parts and that males have these body parts this is also compared to rationalization. The other stage would be latency which is the observable stage and that is related to repression. Be observant is a very skilled manner that has been brought on Freud’s theories. Without being observant things really would not make any sense and situations would just collapse to pieces. The last stage on Freud’s list is the genital stage where it is the peak of puberty and in sexual interest which is also part of the sublimation defense mechanisms having urges of sexual needs and knowing what are the sexual interest for the male and female. One of the defense mechanisms I can relate to is denial. In my early to late childhood I was in denial...
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...In life as in music, arrogance can be a disadvantage. Keller becomes more of a fatherly figure than a teacher. He teaches Paul how to restrain ones excessive pride and also the importance of limitations as well as the uselessness of striving for the unattainable. On a number of occasions throughout the text, Keller warns Paul about excessive arrogance and that “self-satisfied go no further”. Keller does this because he wants Paul to have the benefit of his own life experiences of being arrogant. He once believed that his musical genius was the reason why he had a ‘special’ relationship with the Nazi’s back in World War II which helped protect his Jewish wife and son from the gas chambers in the Holocaust. But he now believes that his arrogance during that time was the cause of their deaths. Keller also teaches Paul about the importance of limitations. He reminds Paul that striving for unrealistic dreams can waste a large amount of time. Keller also advises him “to search too long for perfection can also paralyse” and the importance of being truthful. It is Keller’s advice to Paul during these piano lessons that contribute to his pot of emotions and experiences that help Paul become the man he is at the end of the...
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...A Knack for Excellence Is striving to graduate with Honors really worth the struggle? You might be wondering, is he really taking it there? Well, Yes I am. What if you gave and dedicated your life and soul, solely on achieving this honor and still don’t make it? Yes, I’m sure it looks great on a resume and one may feel like they have accomplished life’s greatest feat, especially when graduating from a Harvard, Yale, Princeton or any other highly-notable University with such prestigious of a honor; but neither life nor success in life is solely characterized by acquiring A’s in school. So is it really worth it, and what does it truly mean to graduate with honors? As the film “With Honors” depicted, for Harvard it meant everything, but he realized the bigger picture in the end. I believe graduating with ‘Honors’ should be considered more than a goal. It should be considered a way of life, a lifestyle so to say. In the film, “With Honors”, ‘Harvard’ was at the mercy of Simon, the ‘Harvard Bum’ who found his thesis paper. Even though Harvard failed to graduate with honors from Harvard, he essentially did one thing right when he chose to chase a dream of graduating with Honors. He set his goals high! He set his eyes on the prize and began a figuratively climb upward the likes of a Mt. Everest; with Mt. Everest being his graduation from Harvard with quote, unquote, honors. Simon taught them that just graduating with a flimsy piece of paper can only get them so far, that...
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...Esther Faith B. Montilla BS PSYCHOLOGY-II Freud : Psychoanalysis Sigmund Freud is considered to be the father of psychology by his supporters and his adversaries. Many may choose to disagree with his theories but none would deny that it raised interest, controversy, discussions, research and more theories. Many of Freud’s theories are perceived to be appalling in today’s society but especially so for his generation. His theories were enormously influential, but subject to considerable criticism both now and during his own life. Sample of these major theories are The Conscious and Unconscious Mind in which Freud believed that behavior and personality derives from the constant and unique interaction of conflicting psychological forces that operate at three different levels of awareness which are the preconscious, the conscious, and the unconscious. The Id, Ego and Superego which states that personality is composed of three elements which are known to be the id, ego and superego. Psychosexual Development which describes how personality develops during childhood. Defense Mechanisms or ways that we protect ourselves from things that we don't want to think about or deal with. Freudian Slips which is a verbal or memory mistake that is believed to be linked to the unconscious mind. And the Interpretation of Dreams in which Freud explained that our dreams have manifest content which refers to the surface meaning or the conscious description and the latent content which refers...
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...Steve Caberto The art of music is craft that can take a lifetime to perfect. Though the pursuit of perfection is never obtain, Songwriter, producer, musician Steve Caberto well ahead of the pack. The musically inclined Miami native has been well acquainted with music since the age of 5 years old when his Uncle bestowed him with a Yamaha keyboard. It was there on, the musical gene began to consume and mold his focus. While most 14 year olds where indecisive on what new video game hit the shelves, Steve was already rooted in his path to conquer the endless melodies of music. Inspired and skilled in Jazz, Classical, Pop, and Hip Hop, Steve uses these various genres as a medium to create works of art that brings out a plethora of emotions to his...
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...Confession by Linh Dinh The idea of human models in society is usually associated with ideas of beauty and perfection. Models today have no physical blemishes or flaws. People endeavor the media’s portrayal of this sublimity. By losing weight or getting involved in the latest fashion trends, society strives to achieve the same glorification that these models receive. However, beauty has been a tool society has used to forget about the true nature of humans. In “Confession”, Linh Dinh attempts to illustrate society’s chase after beauty is actually society attempting to ignore the imperfections of being human. Linh Dinh focuses heavily on society’s impressions of deformity discreetly. He does this through his language usage. Dinh writes, “the jagged gaps of their stiff smiles”(5). The media portrays a beautiful smile as lips turned upward with shining white teeth. Dinh creates the opposite on his doll. The word “jagged” facilitates in bringing out a beastly image. This jagged smile reminds the audience of a wild animal, with sharp gnarly teeth. In perspective to the aim of “Confession”, this relation to an animal symbolizes the imperfections of humans to a new extent. The physical defects that are obvious through the first read now become a discreet way of conveying that humans are not as sophisticated as they think, but rather unrefined and uncivilized. Dinh continues on to use the word “stiff”(5) to describe the smile he is creating on the model. The word stiff...
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