...Feinberg discusses the idea of keeping a child’s right to an open future, and uses ideas related to parents raising their true children with the goal of an open future, and child self governance in making decisions for themselves even if it seems wrong. In my opinion no child should be able to self govern themselves completely until the age of 18. When the child turns 18 he or she is officially considered an adult and gains sovereign authority over their lives if they choose to move out from under their parents roof. Before the age of 18, the child is still growing and learning at this point. This doesn’t mean that the parents shouldn’t allow the child to form their own decisions, but instead take a back seat and guide the child to what best suits the situation. Parents will have complete control over obvious decisions like having the child attend school, and eat their vegetables, however, when it comes to hobbies and activities the child should be able to choose what interests them. The younger years are crucial in a child’s life, and often filled with mistakes and life lessons. The parents can help by keeping positive influence on the child’s life, and ultimately provide them with an open future....
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...1 Tawana Gant English 102 Professor Hennicke April 8, 2013 Open Adoption vs. Closed: A Narcissism Ride Imagine being blind and experiencing the following. You’re 7 years old and your parents have just been in a devastating car crash and right before your eyes you’re now an orphan. Suddenly within weeks, you’re with a family that is in no relation to you and you have brothers and sisters but you do not know where they are because they have been placed with another family. Now having no source of connection with them, you feel emptiness inside because of this tragic change that has happened around you and your family within a short time span. Personally speaking this would be incapacitating to be around a family that were no resemblance to me; who they were or where they came from, and having them make decisions about my life without having any benefaction of my choice. In what manner do the rights of others have to anyone’s information for medical records through a closed adoption process, halting any of the child’s connections? The steps of adoption is to give the child a better contingency at life, though to interfere and disconnect his or her life ties involving their bloodline and history would not be sufficient to their lives in anyway. In other words to have a closed adoption is like someone telling a child there is no way of acquainting with the birth family or simply there is no history to be told about his or her biological roots. Generally speaking...
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...Closed versus Open Adoption Week 6, Exercise 2 Research Paper English 141 April 22, 2012 Society has gone through changes but many of the foundations of the adoption system are related to how the world was. The matter in which children are adopted is still based on primitive ideas of the past. Forty years ago, the idea of a single mother was an unthinkable and shameful situation. Women were expected to be proper and wait for marriage before making love to a man. The social opinions were important and life altering at that period. Society has conformed to a less conserivative outlook over the past years. The opinions of other people is not relevant in the twenty first century, people do as they please with no concern of others judgments. Along with the change of how people think, a change in the system should be required. In the past closed adoption was used to protect the birth mother’s name and not bring shame to the baby. In this new time woman, more often give up a baby because of money issues or age, not for the fear of gossip. All adoptions should be performed in an open adoption system. Open adoption provides a solution to the emotion distress involved in adoption and has more good aspects then that of closed adoption. Closed adoption is an impersonal...
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...Corporal punishment is a form of physical punishment that involves the deliberate infliction of pain as retribution for an offence, or for the purpose of disciplining or reforming a wrongdoer, or to deter attitudes or behavior deemed unacceptable. It may be divided into three main types: Parental or Domestic corporal punishments, which is made by parents, guardians, or any person inside the house including nannies, gardeners, etc., School corporal punishments, which is made by teacher, principals, canteen vendors, etc., and judicial corporal punishments that is done by judges and polices. Since we are talking about the child, we disregard the judicial corporal punishment for it is applicable only for people inside the prison. Some says corporal punishments should again be reintroduced to the modern world. They say that everything has a bright side including the said corporal punishment to the child. At this instance, experts says that if the child is strong enough to handle and bare the burden in this kind of punishment, maybe he would not do again what he has done wrong for he doesn’t want to be punished again. Others say that a child who experienced these punishments will be stronger rather than those who didn’t and will never be dependent on their parents when they grow up. Some says children who have experienced this kind of punishment will have more self-control and less emotional stress than those who are not. There are also studies that prove corporal punishments will...
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...through various forms of technologies; communication technology is the major one that globalization influences. Technology has helped children to communicate and get to know children with different lifestyles, by doing this youth can learn and appreciate what they have and how they live. Globalization has allowed the younger generations to see the world more easily and be exposed to more cultures and ideas than ever before. With the influence of globalization, youth are now able to interact and interconnect with other kids around the world, thus giving them the chance to learn and understand new perspectives and regimes. Because of the impact of globalization children are now able to broaden their understanding of the world to become more open-minded and active within the various communities that exist around the world. Globalization has resulted...
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...that it is possible to be respectful and firm at the same time. Empathy - A good parent knows how to listen, more than talk. Sometimes, all a child needs is a listening ear, a safe place to talk things out, and for the parent to put themselves in the child's shoes, rather than jump in and fix his problems for him. A parent who is willing to tune into their child's words, tone of voice, and body language, will have a better chance of hearing what their child is really saying. Empathic listening sets the stage for open communication and can go a long way in strengthening the parent-child relationship. Trust - A good parent takes advantage of opportunities to allow their child to make age-appropriate decisions, thereby, instilling a level of trust in the child's ability to do so. Entrusting a child to make certain choices is a great way to empower a child, and ultimately help a child learn how to become responsible. When parents try to control too many things in a child's life, it sends the message, "I don't trust you to make the right decisions, my way is better." Consequently, the more control a parents uses, the less cooperation they will get. Leadership - A parent's main role in their child's life is to be a leader- someone the child can model, and learn from, but most importantly, someone who will keep them healthy and safe....
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...decision to open a daycare center was not an easy decision. The daycare center will be in Somers Connecticut. A mission statement will be developed to help the employees as well as the customers to understand what the daycare is about. A vision plan will also be developed to give me and my employees a look into the future. The daycares values will be discussed and decided. K & M Munchkins will be located in Somers, Connecticut in a location convenient for parents to drop their children and not go far out of their way. It will offer a full day kindergarten and a full day preschool. It will also have before and after school care as well as vacations. The daycare will be educational and have a safe atmosphere. Mission Statement At K & M Munchkins we believe a child has the right to grow to learn all there is to learn. To allow the child to become the child it can be, to have the opportunity to play and grow, to learn, and teach. K & M Munchkins will provide a safe, clean and educating environment to accommodate each individual child. At K & M Munchkins the children will be participating in an age developed activities daily. There is story time, puzzles and games, and nutritious snacks and meals. There is an age appropriate learning curriculum, and daily communication with parents about their child. Children will be cared for with kindness, love, and respect. Children are a precious gift and should be treated as such. Vision Statement My vision is to open more K...
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...WESTERNIZING ASIAN EYES..................................................................... 960 B. HORMONES FOR STATURE ........................................................................ 961 C. LIPOSUCTION ON A TWELVE YEAR OLD.................................................... 963 D. GROWTH STUNTING ................................................................................. 964 II. THE LAW, MEDICINE, PARENTAL RIGHTS, AND CHILDREN’S BODIES ................. 966 A. BACKGROUND LAW ................................................................................. 966 B. APPLICATION IN SHAPING CASES .............................................................. 969 C. ROOM FOR REGULATION .......................................................................... 971 III. WHAT IS REALLY WRONG WITH MEDICAL AND SURGICAL SHAPING OF CHILDREN? ............................................................................................................ 973 A. THE NONSUBORDINATION PRINCIPLE AS A LIMIT ON INDIVIDUAL RIGHTS 974 B. CHILDREN AS PERSONS, PARENTAL RIGHTS ............................................. 977 C. MEDICAL AND SURGICAL SHAPING OF CHILDREN IS DIFFERENT ............... 981 IV. CONCERNING THE CHILD: ANOTHER VIEW OF PARENTHOOD ........................... 985 A. ALTERNATIVE MODELS ............................................................................ 987 B. COMMON PRINCIPLES ............................................................................... 991 V. RECONSTRUCTING...
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...Title: Equality and Inclusion Assignment. Introduction “Children’s early years have been stressed as being fundamentally important to their future development and consequently to society as a whole”, (Early Years Framework, 2009). There are however multiple and diverse childhoods. This report will firstly examine legislation which has been introduced to reduce inequalities and promote social inclusion in relation to early childhood. The second section of this report will critically examine some of the sociological concepts pertaining to poverty, class, health inequalities and the harmful effects of stereotyping and prejudice. The report will also explore some of the factors that can influence and shape children’s identity and multiple identities. The third section of this report will discuss the effectiveness of government policy and how this is translated into practice. The final section will discuss practice which promotes equality and inclusion with reference to a placement task. In conclusion the report will discuss if current legislation, policy and practice is effective in demonstrating an inclusive approach. Legislation The Equality Act (2010) streamlines and strengthens the law and gives individuals greater protection from unfair discrimination and makes it easier for employers and companies to understand their responsibilities. It also sets a new standard for those who provide public services to treat everyone, with dignity and respect. There are nine protected...
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...end in divorce, with over 1 million children being affected per year (Ahrons, 2007). Chaos and stress, probably feelings that have been prevalent for some time prior to divorce, result and impact the now divided family unit. Children are particularly vulnerable to the affects of divorce. Unable to understand and process such complex matters of life, children resort to alternative ways of expressing their heartache and confusion. Not only is there an emotional impact on these children’s lives but there is also a psychological impact with these children dealing with the effects of relocation. Children are forced to become independent and moral thinkers at such a young age which they might not be mentally prepared for which can result in future consequences. A major contributor to the well being of children after a divorce are the parents who need to remain attentive to their children’s needs and stay active participants in their growing years. This outlines the systems theory which describes how the family needs to work out strategies to deal with new challenges at each stage of life. In order for children to recover a stable perspective of the family after a divorce, the parents must take into consideration the emotional stability of their children, the effects of relocation and possible child coping strategies to help this difficult process become easier on their children. Children are particularly vulnerable to the affects of divorce especially if they are in the constant...
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...impart fine morals and ideals in the children that I come into contact with, esteem each child and the families culture, beliefs, and race, make sure that the treatment I give to each child is fair to ensure that in each child the feeling of equality is developed, I will also have the community work with the families of the children and the educationists as a team, be a constant advocator of the kids, maintain an environment full of fun, interesting and still safe for the children, and to exhaust all avenues prior to making a decision concerning a child. This philosophy that I have presented will ensure that all families feel at home, every child comfortable, and the stakeholders desire to work as a team to make sure the optimal level of a child’s development is reached. My personal philosophy has been shaped over time and it is: to impart fine morals and ideals in the children that I come into contact with; esteem each child and the families culture, beliefs, and race; make sure that the treatment I give to each child is fair to ensure that in each child the feeling of equality is developed; I will also have the community work with the families of the children and the educationists as a team; be a constant advocator of the kids; maintain an environment full of fun, positive and still safe for the children; and to exhaust all avenues prior to making a decision concerning a child. (Warner & Sower, 2005) This philosophy that I have presented will ensure that all families feel at...
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...the youngest child, my mother offered to care for her for the time being. Little did we know the biological father had the right to come without notice and pick her up without any questions. Two months later, when he was ready to come get her from our home, removing her from being with us was a devastating sight. For she was happy with us and was able to keep close to her two sisters and family members. To this day, sixteen years later, we have not seen or heard from her. Yes, what I experienced was temporary guardianship, and it does not amount to what adoptions actually endure; however, the pain and frustration we experienced like families do in adoption cases was still there. In this summary, I will point out how both authors used quotation marks, and italics as a way of making their point. In the article “Closed Adoption Can Sow Bitterness and Discontent”, the author Marcy Axness shows how open adoptions can be done with proper guidance and the mindset adoptees should be in for understanding the birth mother’s rights. In comparison to the article “Privacy in Adoption Is a Human Right”, written by Thomas C. Atwood, he defends the right of a standard set of mandatory guidelines in an open adoption. In Axness’s and Atwood’s article both authors use the elements quotation marks and italics to gain have their side on the issues of open adoptions, and open records. In Axness’s article, she used quotation marks as a way of making her points clear. She was very effective in catching...
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... Children are our future, and as our future we want our world to be free of sicknesses and diseases, well as much as we like the idea it is not going to happen. We have children who are suffering from life- threatening illnesses who do not have a chance to be a kid or to grow up with the memories of childhood. We try all we can as parents and family to keep our children safe we just can not perdict a child getting a life threating illness, we do all we can to make our child happy while going through a scary ordeal. If we can make one dream come true for a sick child for one day of forgetting they are staring down a life threatening illness and make that child laugh wouldn't giving that child a wish come true be amazing? The social program I am creating is a program to help a child who is terminally ill or has a life threatening illness called “Dreams Come True.” A dream come True program would for one day grant sa wish one child makes come true. To make this happen I would need to set up the program, find donors and volunteers, financing to help the wishes come true. Advances in medicine and modern technonogy have increased the survival rate in children with chronic illness, including illnessess that were considered fatal (Cohen,1995).Witnessing the child's pain and fear, combined with the constant fear of death makes it difficult for the family to function normally and plan for the future (Haas, 1990; Rolland...
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...1. Let your child discover her own interests. Pay attention the activities she chooses. This free-time play can say a lot about where her gifts lie. 2. Expose your child to a broad spectrum of experiences. They may activate latent talents. Don't assume that he isn't gifted in an area because he hasn't shown an interest. 3. Give your child permission to make mistakes. If she has to do things perfectly, she'll never take the risks necessary to discover and develop a gift. 4. Ask questions. Help your child open up to he wonders of the world by asking intriguing questions: Why is the sky blue? Find the answers together. 5. Plan special family projects. Shared creativity can awaken and develop new talents. 6. Don't pressure your child to learn. If children are sent to special lessons every day in the hope of developing their gifts, they may become too stressed or exhausted to shine. Encourage, but don't push. 7. Have high expectations. But make them realistic. 8. Share your work life. Expose your child to images of success by taking him to work. Let him see you engaged in meaningful activities and allow him to become involved. 9. Provide a sensory-rich environment. Have materials around the home that will stimulate the senses: finger paints, percussion instruments, and puppets. 10. Keep your own passion for learning alive. Your child will be influenced by your example. 11. Don't limit your child with labels. They may saddle her with a reputation...
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...Where a child comes from is a major part of who they are, and in ¨Preservation of the Child´s Background in In- and Intercountry Adoption¨ Judith Lind and Shruti Johansson, from the Department of Child Studies at Linkoping University, state that ¨consideration should be given to the child's ethnic, religious, cultural, and linguistic background¨ (235). Statements are given within conventions such as the CRC and Hague Convention in deference to the preservation of a child's identity, but these conventions do not a make strong allegations on how this is an important part of what needs to be done in international adoption. Where a child comes from is part of who they are, not something that can be taken away because of this the child should not be cut off from knowing who they are. Doing such would rid a child of knowing a whole part of who they truly...
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