...seen as a healthy part of growing up. The results show almost exactly equal responses to questions regardless of the gender in the scenario. In the written results it was seen that if a person believed in the existence and use of the word ‘slut’, they then all said that men can be ‘sluts.’ This furthers the idea that sexism in youth regarding the expression of sexual receptivity or interest, is no longer. Their opinions on the matter is equal for both sexes. Although in the true or false results...
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...until next spring so I suggest you get out of my car, take out your phone, and call an Uber because I am not driving you.” Billie was serious. “We can get you fired. Now stop being a bitch and drive us. We are late now.” Louis groaned. Billie glared at him. “You can get out too.” She hissed. Louis shrugged and opened the door. He stepped out of the Range Rover and Zayn followed behind. Zayn slammed the door. Billie started up the van and pulled back onto the road. Harry looked down at his hands. Blood was dripping from his nose. He sighed. Billie glanced back at the boys in the rearview mirror. “There are tissues in the seat pocket.” She said. Harry muttered a thank you and held the glob of tissues tightly against his nose. The rest of the ride was silent and none of the boys minded. Calum stayed awake the rest of the trip. He wished he could sit in the passenger seat next to her where her backpack sat. Calum wished he could know what she was thinking right now. He hoped it was about him but he knew it probably wasn’t. Even though Billie often ignored him like she did with the rest of the boys he still liked her. She did nothing and often times was awkward and shy but he fell for that. And though he knew she probably never thought about him in a non business related way he loved her and couldn’t stop thinking about...
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...There is a form of bullying known as slut-shaming. The word “slut” is a sexist slur that is used almost every day by not only males, but because it has become such a social norm, it is used by females as well. The word itself is meant to be an insult to women who show even the slightest interest in sexual activity, even though males are praised for the same interests. Women have the same hormones as men. One will hear the excuse that it’s different for men because they “just can’t help themselves” and “that’s how they were made.” However, scientific studies show that there really aren't any significant differences in the amount of sex hormones between both genders, and, therefore, there is absolutely no reason to treat the same feelings and desires differently based on gender. A female’s peers will try to make her feel bad about herself for impulses that are perfectly normal. That girl will go on the rest of her life thinking that she is wrong and disgusting for feeling and thinking in a way that might be considered...
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...only go to raves as an excuse to dress like a slut. Bros don’t belong here. Teenagers don’t belong here. Adults don’t belong here. Sluts don’t belong here. Your music taste sucks. Krewella sucks. Animals sucks. Ultra sucks. Trance sucks. EDM sucks." Look familiar? My guess is if you’ve visited the Internet any time in the past few months, it does. Yeah, the internet is a place full of trolls, where individuals are safe to hide behind this facade without repercussions. But these instances are only a few examples that speak to the larger issue at hand in our scene: PLUR is dead. Sure, PLUR is just a made up concept which never concretely existed, but I would argue that the values behind it used to be very much alive and practiced. Don’t get me wrong, the ideology of PLUR still exists for many generous, caring, respectful, and responsible people out there, but some of the most “PLUR” people I know even refuse to use that term because of what it has since turned into. In the grand scheme of this “scene", I am in no way an expert, nor can I speak for the “scene" outside of America. Only entering the rave culture a few years ago, I do not claim to have been here to have seen its “glory days” of warehouse parties and glow sticks; in fact, I might even be considered a “noob.” Yet one thing is very evident to me in my short time being a part of this beautiful subculture: it has changed. I won’t speak for what I don’t know, but in my time being a “raver” I have seen Peace,...
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...most cases, they haven’t. Teenagers have an easy out of escaping trouble now days through social media. They use fake accounts so that their identity is anonymous when embarrassing others. People believe that if they send or post something on social media it can be deleted and no one else will see it, but people can share what they’ve sent or posted and then everyone can see it. Finally, they have constant access to social media through computers, cellphones or tablets to insult others. The 2011 movie “Cyberbully” is a prime example of bullying over social media being one of the main causes of teen attempted suicides. In this movie Emily Osmet plays a girl named Taylor who is bullied by one of her friends through a fake profile. On this fake profile her friend fronts as being someone names James who spreads a rumor about Taylor that she slept with him. People begin calling Taylor vulgar names like “slut” and “whore”. She eventually tries to attempt suicide by overdosing on pills when her friend finds her. Taylor’s mother did what more parents should be doing, and fought to make cyberbullying illegal. The 2013 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance Survey states “15% of high school students (grades 9-12) were electronically bullied in the past year.” (stopbullying.gov) And this is only the reported cases. There are many more cases where individuals do not say anything because they are ashamed of what people are saying about them. Some cases are not reported due to fear...
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...called Liar Liar. In this film, Jim Carrey plays a character named Fletcher Reede who is a lawyer in Los Angeles. Fletcher Reede is faced with a big dilemma when his son Max makes a birthday wish; wishing that his father could not lie for twenty-four hours. Magically, the wish comes true and during the twenty-four hours of not being able to lie there are plenty of legal and ethical issues that Fletcher Reede creates. The first ethical issue that is presented is when Jennifer Tilly meets with Fletcher Reede for the first time. Jennifer Tilly seems to be a gold digger who only wants money out of a divorce with her husband. She makes it very obvious by mistake and does not realize it. Rather than Fletcher Reede choosing to inform her with the correct way to handle this situation with the divorce, he not only encourages it but also blows it way out of proportion making it seem like Jennifer Tilly is the victim. It is extremely unethical to do this because the right thing to do would be to let her know what is morally correct in this situation. Seeing that Jennifer Tilly was clearly not the victim, Fletcher Reede could have avoided acting unethical by being honest with her and letting her know what would be a fair settlement in this situation. It is a lawyer's job to help their client and put their client in the best position possible, however it is required that they remain loyal to the law and remain ethical in their decisions. Jennifer Tilly claims to have been cheating with seven...
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...It may not be all it’s cracked out to be. It is easy to throw on some clothes that will make you look appealing to the eye and act like you are the most confident person in the world; but on the inside you may feel completely different. In the story The Sun Also Rises, Lady Brett wears clothes that may show a little more skin than usual. When introduced in the story she was described as wearing a tweed skirt which comes above the knees. For the time period being the 1920’s, this was very risky. At this point in time women had just won the right to vote. Directly before this time, they were wearing skirts to their ankles and dresses with sleeves. In the article “Character Studies: Lady Brett Ashley” by Stephanie LaCava, states, “Her hair is an androgynous style,” (para.6). Having an androgynous style means that it is a cross between a man and a woman's look. She wasn’t your average girl of the 1920’s; her look was very modern for the time. Along with her attire Brett was described as having “curves like the hull of a racing yacht” (pg.30). Her curves attracted men easily especially when she wore risky clothes. With men coming at her like flies, she was used to all of the attention. This kind of look...
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...Right after finishing the show, I instantly found the comparison between Missoula and Krakauer’s style of reporting to the producer of the show, Joseph Incaprera. Both men decided to not sugar coat any part of the topic of rape or rape culture. I felt just as uncomfortable reading Missoula as I did watching 13 Reasons Why, and that is how I know both told the stories of these young women effectively and with passion. A person should feel uncomfortable when hearing the word rape, and an effective narrative should provoke anger into the soul. A football player or honored member of a college campus raping a woman and getting away with the crime is not just a television show plotline, it is an actual event that has happened multiple times. Missoula also reminded me of a rape case that occurred back in 2012, when trophy-winning quarterback, Jameis Winston, assaulted a young woman at Florida State University. Yet, according to Times Magazine, “The police did not follow the obvious leads that would have quickly identified the suspect as well as witnesses, one of whom videotaped part...
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...and blaming victims for their own abuse”. I have come across numerous articles (and the dreaded comments section) that debate whether or not rape culture actually exits in the United States, and I agree with many points coinciding with the presence of rape culture in our society in regards to victim-blaming and slut-shaming, however to some degree, I do not believe song lyrics, TV shows/movies, and jokes that seemingly promote rape actually causes rape to occur....
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...In both the Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne and the Ted Talk by Monica Lewinsky, both authors highlight how the effects of humiliation by society towards an individual only have the desired negative impact for a short time. Even though the sin becomes part of the individual’s identity, the negative impacts of trying to reform the guilty wears off, and the character of the person is strengthened. However, the culture created by the genesis of humiliation is everlasting, and it creates a harmful society that condones humiliation and shaming, while lacking compassion. Humiliation and shaming does more harm to the society than to the individual. In the Scarlet Letter, the main character Hester Prynne, is subjected to public humiliation by having to wear a scarlet “A” to show she has committed...
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...Missouri. She was a “bubbly, goofy” girl and loved hanging out with her friends. She took her own life October 16,2006. According to the Today show this all happened because of two adults and a child. The mother of Megan's friend and the 18 year old girl set up a fake MySpace account. The account was of a 16 year old boy who they named Josh Evans. They set up the fake MySpace account because Megan and her friend had a falling out and they wanted to see if they could get her to say anything about the daughter. So they got her trust and Megan thought she was talking to a 16 year old boy and she happened to pretty much fall in love him. Once they knew she trusted him they started to send her mean messages calling her names, saying she was a slut and that she was fat. The very last message that was sent to her Coolidge 2 said that she was a bad...
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...counter? I say yes and let me tell you why. Being a teen I see and hear what goes on around high school and you would be surprised how many kids have sex and how many times a day. Kids, who get pregnant, are going to do it regardless. No parent, no class, and no teacher are going to tell them what to do if that’s what they want to do. I’m sorry that’s the way it works, if you don’t like it change it. That’s where birth control comes in. Maybe they do it more but that’s better than ruining a teenager’s life in the future just because they were naïve in the past. Now think the baby and a kid herself raising another human being. Fourteen and fifteen year olds raising kids that’s just kills me inside because there’s no way a baby should be brought up in that environment. Also let’s think about the mental and physical toll upon the family and child itself. The family knowing that there little princess who was just watching the little mermaid and Dora is now having to become an adult, a parent all of the sudden. In some cases their parents will kick them out or even beat them just because they don’t want to deal with them. Now the actual becoming parent dealing with the social aspect of is just unbearable. I mean teenagers are mean in general and how they treat others is even worse. We do this thing as kids, where we put our whole life as high school students in popularity. Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, all these social networks depend all on how many followers you have. The minute you...
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...today have been using multiple electronic digital devices which provide a new means of communicating with each other and access to the worldwide Internet. While these devices should be used as positive tools in educational and other settings, unfortunately, these devices are also sometimes used in very unsafe and irresponsible ways. When people start resorting to bullying and harassment via the Internet and other electronic communication devices, these behaviors are called “cyber bullying.” Recently, there have been many public service announcements (PSAs) trying to stop the use of discriminatory slurs with little or no effect. There were articles in “The Nation” and “The New York Times” about polls taken by MTV on the effect these slurs have on young people with a few surprising results. They found that half of young people say using discriminatory slurs is wrong but 54% say it’s okay to use such slurs as “fag”, “slut”, or “retard” when they are in their individual circle of friends. With the growing use of social networking...
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...------------------------------------------------- HOW IT WORKS? …….I unroll that and discover seven loose audiotapes. Each tape has a dark blue number painted in the upper right-hand corner,possibly with nail polish. Each side has its own number. One and two on the first tape,three and four on the next,five and six,and so on. The last tape has thirteen on one side,but nothing on the back Hello,boys and girls. Hannah Baker here. Live and in stereo. No return engagements. No encore. And this time,absolutely no requests. I hope you’re ready,because I’m about to tell you the story of my life. More specifically why my life ended. And if you’re listening to these tapes,you’re one of the reasons why: I’m not saying which tape brings you into the story, But fear not,if you received this lovely little box,your name will pop up… I promise. The rules are pretty simple. There are only two. Rule number one: You listen. Rule number two: You pass it on. Hopefully,neither one will be easy for you. When you’re done listening to all thirteen sides-because there are thirteen sides to every story-rewind the tape,put them back in the box and pass them on to whoever follows your little tale. And you,lucky number thirteen,you can take the tapes straight to hell. Depending on your religion,maybe I’ll see you there. In case you’re tempted to break the rules,understand that I did make a copy of these tapes. These copies will be released in a very public manner if this package doesn't...
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...burst into tears: this is the first time I remember being mean. In preschool a boy was stepping on my coat and making annoying noises. I wanted my coat and I wanted him to be quiet so I hit him on the head: this is the Second time I remember being mean. In kindergarten my friend and I got in a fight with a fifth grader and everyday on the bus a rapid firing of insults (most of which I didn’t know) would ensue back and forth from us to her. I didn’t realize it at the time but we were probably being bullies just as much as we were being bullied. In second grade I didn’t have a single friend in my class, the only girls in my class were all from the popular...
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