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...sins against us. There is no doubt about the second part of this statement. It is in the Lord's Prayer, it was emphatically stated by our Lord. If you don't forgive you will not be forgiven. No exceptions to it. He doesn't say that we are to forgive other people's sins, provided they are not too frightful, or provided there are extenuating circumstances, or anything of that sort. We are to forgive them all, however spiteful, however mean, however often they are repeated. If we don't we shall be forgiven none of our own. Now it seems to me that we often make a mistake both about God's forgiveness of our sins and about the forgiveness we are told to offer to other people's sins. Take it first about God's forgiveness, I find that when I think I am asking God to forgive me I am often in reality (unless I watch myself very carefully) asking Him to do something quite different. I am asking him not to forgive me but to excuse me. But there is all the...
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...Rationalizing Unethical Behavior PHL/323 July 4, 2013 Philip Reynolds Rationalizing Unethical Behavior It is important as a professional to possess the ability to make ethical decisions. There is not a bright flashing arrow that points to the right choice. On the contrary, the lines a are often blurred and even the best choice can fall into a grey area. The following paragraphs will explore five common excuses people give for making unethical decisions and what a person can do to overcome the excuses so as not to breach their personal value system. Individual life experiences, culture, family, and friendships all help a person to form their personal values and standards. Practical reasoning can be used to determine what is right and what is wrong weather in an individuals personal life or in a business setting. The first excuse for making a decision that is deemed unethical is the ignorance is bliss excuse. Most people are raised to believe that it is wrong to tell a lie. Without having the foundation for good decision making it is easier to justify telling a lie. One may have the knowledge that it is wrong but may also believe that it is okay if the circumstance is appropriate. They use the excuse that they were not taught early on that it is inappropriate to lie no matter the circumstance. A second excuse that many use it that it really is not that big of a deal. According to Vora (2012), People can have the attitude of “the world has changed it’s values so I must change...
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...those habits, excuses and beliefs that keep us bound to mediocrity. The book begins with a story of a family with eight members living in the state of poverty in a small village in the middle of a vacant lot. All they had was an old house about to collapse and a cow, which gave them poor but nutrient milk. That cow was all that separated them from the absolute misery. One day the cow dies and the family was left with nothing, in total ruin. After that tragic moment, their luck began to change, and they themselves decided to change. First they cleared the space in their house and harvesting vegetables and then selling them to neighbors and even a market place. The family’s income started to increase and they started to dressed better, they fixed their house and they realized that their life could change, even with no cow around. Through its nine chapters, the book gives us clear and concrete examples of people that were holding on to “cows”, which symbolize fears, negative thoughts and comfort zone, and how they came to realize that they could overcome these “cows” and achieve success. Each and every one of us have cows in our lives. We tow our beliefs that sometimes parents impose to us or we use excuses and justifications that keep us tied to a life of mediocrity. We have cows that do not let us seek better opportunities, grow and become better individuals. The story of the cow is a story that teaches and explains how to free ourselves from habits, excuses and beliefs that...
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...religion. Unfortunetly, religion is not just about faith anymore, but an excuse for control and manipulation, and discrimination. In Neil deGrasse Tyson's work "The Perimeter of Ignorance", he talks about scientists using God. Many influential scientists throughout history have used God to explain some phenomenon they themselves could not explain at the time. In his work, Tyson states "plenty of scientists besides Newton have called on God-or gods-wherever their comprehension fades to ignorance". Unfortunelty, what they do not realize is how it is holding them back from more knowledge. God simply just became a convenience for them, an excuse when they did not have an answer. In a way, that is exactly what is...
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...school. For the first year I just made excuses and blamed everyone but myself for all the problems that were going on in my life. So instead of making excuses I am going to take personal responsibility for the amount of time, energy and resources I use to be successful in college and in life allowing nothing to stand in the way of me reaching my goals. When it comes to personal responsibility I have learned that it is a choice, my choice. If something isn’t going right in my life it is my choice to make it better, live my life the way it is, or make excuses. For years my ex told me I was a waste of space and that I wouldn’t amount to anything. At that time I accepted that was how my life was going to be but after going back to school the first time I found this saying “If it is to be, it is up to me!” I have made a poster of this saying and posted it in my office; a week later I moved out and left my husband. I know now that no matter what is going on in my life it is my choice how I will let it affect me. My college success is completely my personal responsibility. I get to choose the amount of time I will spend of each assignment, and the amount of energy I will use finding and using the resources available to be successful, how we use our time, energy and resources will determine our success or failure in college. We can choose to do EVERYTHING it takes to be successful and reach all our goals or we can sit back and make excuses which will just lead to...
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...Breakthrough begins with You! Damon Walton Breakthrough begins with You! Introduction Your next breakthrough begins with you! This book is about effecting a radical change in your life. Is about getting out the rut of the day to day life to go to the next level. I was one of the millions of people who needed a change in one's life. This book about providing a radical change in every aspect of life one has from the professional to the personal. What prompted me to write this book was based on life experiences I had with breakthroughs. I like most people, have a life where it consist of barriers and breakthroughs. I will talk about the common barriers we all face and how to break through them to achieve success in our daily lives. Some of you are wondering how I can help you and why me. To answer your first question, is to read the book. Read the following chapters with an open mind and don't pass judgment. The answer to the second question is that I applied the same advice to my life. Am I a celebrity, famous author, or a self-help guru? No, I am not but I am an ordinary person who effected change in my life through some radical yet common-sense principles. I am not writing this book to become a millionaire or to be famous in my right but effect change in our daily lives. We tend to listen to those who share a common background. Hopefully, my message will resonate with those who are looking for a breakthrough in their daily lives. We all are yearning...
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...Personal Responsibility Personal responsibility is understanding that to be successful, one must know when to hold em’ and when to fold em’. Every decision that a person makes is a direct result of the amount of responsibility they take for their actions. It is the link between the quality, quantity and timeliness of your work. Being prepared to start a task and following through until it is complete is so important. There are times however, when one might blame outside influences for the consequences that resulted from their actions. Often enough however, it can be proven that with a little more planning and time management, there really would have been no excuse for being unprepared. Let us take a closer look. Knowing when to hold em’ and when to fold em’ is just what it means. It means, knowing when you are capable of meeting the demands of the task before you, and taking the time to ensure that it is completed to fullest of your ability. Failure comes when a person takes on too many tasks or does not possess the skill necessary to complete the task at hand, and does not speak up. Fold em’ does not mean that you have to give up, it just means that you know when to ask for help. Taking on a larger task than you can handle can have terrible results unless you are willing to accept that you need help and reach out for it. The quality, quantity, and timeliness of your work depends on your ability to recognize if this is something you can do by yourself, or if you...
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...refused it because it appeared to him as a petty bourgeois honor. Most of the characteristics we associate with Existentialism are from Sartre. His analysis of human nature congealed during the years in France of the German occupation. He found the French collaboration and their refusal to take responsibility for wrongdoing abysmal and to join “The Resistance.” Their excuses included: appeals to innocence: “I didn’t start the war;” appeals to impotence: “What could I as one person do;” appeals to the “herd” mentality: Everyone else did it;” appeals to self-preservation: “I was looking out for myself; appeals to emotions: “I was afraid.” Yet these excuses seemed hollow and hypocritical. Thus, his philosophy can be best summarized as “no excuses!” He famously said harshly, “We always get the war we deserve.” In another way, we always get the life we deserve. Against all such excuses, Sartre argued that we are never determined, that we are “absolutely free.” This is not to argue in the absurd sense that we can do anything like lift mountains, but it is to say that we always have a choice, and that we always do make a choice, even when they are not always self-evident. It is not the freedom to accomplish whatever we choose, but the freedom to attempt to deal with the world. Much of the physical world is given, birth, background, upbringing, peer...
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...the high crime rate in America, and what excuses we make for these high crime rates. We can see that the crime rates have fluctuated over time since the 1900’s, but even at some of the times of the lowest crime rates in America, it was still higher that even the higher crime rates in most other Western industrial societies. When making comparisons with the US and European countries, we learn that there is a much higher rate of lethal violence, such as suicide in the US. Even though the rates of violent crime in America has declined over recent years, author’s believe that this has more to do with changes in America’s economic status rather than law’s and government policies. Some of the changes in the crime rates could have to do with the “imprisonment binge”, but the number of incarcerated criminals does not reduce the number of criminals we have in America, it just reduces the number of criminals we have roaming free in America. We know that crime is not completely avoidable, and the government has been making changes to help reduce the risks and the likeliness of lethal and dangerous crimes happening. Some of the precautions that have been made include: effective gun control, decriminalization if illicit drugs, amelioration of poverty, the prevention of child abuse or neglect, and they also are taking precautions for at-risk adolescents. In America, there are many “excuses” for the high crime rates that we have. Some of the excuses that we see talked about are that the US...
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...accomplish these dreams we need to understand responsibility, study and plan our lives to make a dream happen. Personal responsibility is accepting what exist in life, behavioral, and actions. Freedom is a choice and because you have chosen every circumstance in life you are responsible for the decision that you have made regardless if it has been success, failure, happiness, and unhappiness. In Living a Life of Meaning and Purpose “Harpo’s Blues written and sung by Phoebe Snow has a line that goes. “I hate to be a grownup and have to live my life in pain.” (University of Phoenix, Ethics Games). As adults there are choices for ethical behavior, to be fair, responsible and honest towards yourself and the community. Grown ups that are in pain chose to be pain they either hate where there career path is heading to or because they chose to be miserable. They get so involved in work or studies and exclude everyone from the real world. While in the process of losing control they lose respect, dignity, and their ethical values in the community and in themselves. The relationships between personal responsibility and college success have the same concept wanting happiness, success, or choose to be a college graduate. Attending college is not any different from your personal life. In college as well as not being in college you need to set goals, set a schedule, learn how to prioritize and make your own decision. According to Hersh and Schneider (2011)“Responsible learners appreciate...
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...academic society, I believe that personal responsibility is the key to great success. The first step to this however is, we have to define personal responsibility. What does having personal responsibility mean, how do we define it in our lives? I believe being personally responsible goes hand in hand with being accountable for your actions. The follow up question for that will be; what is being “accountable”? “Much of the academic literature on accountability is rather disconnected, as many authors set out to produce their own specific definition of accountability.” (Bovens, 2010, para. 1) With accountability used so loosely in language, we have to make a decision as to its meaning. For me accountability is the definition for success. Whatever my choices are in school, I have to be responsible for them. If the decisions I make during the years I attend college are responsible and I hold myself accountable to be successful, there is no limit to what I will be able to achieve. Career Student Personal responsibility will lead to more substantive decisions in your career. I have never met anyone that their goal in life is to be a career student. That being said, some students do feel like their whole life has been spent in school. If for such a long period of time, you are in school, why would you choose to not be successful? Having personal responsibility for your decisions will help ensure that you do not truly spend your entire life “hoping” to achieve the goal you set...
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...at good things are being optimistic and the ones that look at the bad are called pessimistic. These types of people approach life in work, school, and relationships in different ways. For example, an optimist is happy to have what they have accomplished in life, and a pessimist is upset or finds excuses about their life. We are around these types of people daily, but it’s up to us to decide whether we see our lives in an optimistic or pessimistic way. Everyone makes mistakes from time to time and fail in something. In the workplace optimist seem to find success even when something fails. We know that nobody is perfect, yet the effort you put into your job is what the outcome will be. For example, if you arrive on time every day to work and do a good job, it’s likely you will receive a raise when the time comes. On the other hand, a pessimist would be really upset if a mistake occurs. They spend their time complaining about how they failed and why they wouldn’t try to fix the problem. They always seem to find an excuse about something. School can be hard for many students, especially if they struggle through it. This makes it hard to develop a positive attitude towards it and makes it difficult to achieve their goals. However, school is crucial and it is needed in order to succeed. An optimist finds ways to deal with negative outcomes, such as, if a student receives a failing grade in an exam, he/she will study harder next time. Maybe they find a different way to study, or...
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...is Easier Said than Done Robert Brault said," Life becomes easier when you learn to accept the apology you never got." Therefore, knowing how to forgive others for their mistakes makes life more admirable and meaningful. However, forgiveness is easier said than done because of the enormous ego in each person and the arduousness of letting go what happened in the past. Only if people learn how to forgive will they have peace of mind. Anyone who pardons the mistakes of others will get spiritual, physical and relational benefits . To begin with, forgiveness is a part of human life because of its spiritual benefits. Not forgiving someone makes people always look back at the past and remember the mistakes; they are therefore never relaxed and peaceful. "A life without forgiveness is a prison"(Wiliam Arthur Ward) since they have to live lastingly with their sorrow and regret. Forgiveness is an excuse for not only another’s mistake but also themselves. When people know how to pardon, they will escape from their weight of sorrow and have peace of mind. In addition, excusing the mistakes will help people do not to remember painful things, so they will be relaxed and fulfill. The spirituality of people will be stronger because they believe when they excuse the mistakes they will be freedom. They will have negative thinking about the horrible things that is done in the past. Forgiveness is the precious key that helps people have a joyful and blithesome life...
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...Even though some schools start later some have to still wake up early not energized to go to school. There should be a later school start time. Pediatricians agree that later school start times help the kids in school. The bad parts of a later school start time is that some parents cannot switch their schedule for a later school start time and some people think that it is just an excuse for teens and kids being lazy. In fact pediatricians think that a later school start time will prevent sleep deprivation, they believe that students can suffer from mental and physical health problems. The (AAP) recommends that schools delay class to 8:30 in the morning. The (AAP) urges schools to start later. The consequences of a later school...
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