Introduction Traits, personalities, behaviors or characteristics are all a part of life. There are things in life that we naturally gain without notice and attributes that are gained just by observing. It is kind of like the natural order of things. We learn, we adapt and we apply the things that we pick up in our everyday lives. (Personality: what makes you the way you are, 2007) However, not all the traits, behaviors and characteristics are there to begin with. Personalities are learned by those around us, those we admire and those we tend to observe on a daily basis.
Literature Review Every time that you go anywhere there are always people who are always watching you. Some people are more aware of it than others and some people tend to keep silent. According to Kendra Cherry personalities are base of the nature around us and those who we get along with. In recent times people tend to say that personalities are just a part of life and that people are born with certain personalities. (Cherry, 2012) Studies have shown that these critics are just nothing more than reviews unless even proper studies are done. Many studies have shown that people’s personalities are not born and that they are developed by those around us that would influence us that most. There are so many reasons why people are not born with their own personal traits. The first is said to be heredity. (Cherry, 2012) There are studies that show that people tend to have their personalities and behaviors from their parents and relatives. The studies says that more than half the variation was found to be due to heredity, leaving less than half determined by the influence of parents , home environment and other experiences in life. (Goleman, 1986) There are some sayings “he is just like his late great grandfather” or “she is like her great grandmother from the mother’s side”. These are not just