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In many societies, a conventional marriage is between a female wife and a male husband. However, within the Nandi society, the existence of woman/woman marriage is apparent. The aim of this essay is to discuss and evaluate whether the female husband in this woman/woman union is a man, with reference to the article, “Is the Female Husband a Man. Woman/Woman Marriage among the Nandi of Kenya, written by Oboler. The factors that will be discussed will be the requirements for inheritance, gender roles and the husband/wife and husband/child relationship. One can suggest that the female husband is not a man due to the pure fact that biologically the female husband is not a male but a female.
The first factor that will be discussed is the requirements for inheritance. Within the Nandi society property and livestock is held and managed exclusively by men. (Oboler, R.S.1980:136) Therefore, a son is needed to transfer ownership of land and livestock from one generation to the next. In instances where a woman has born no sons, she marries a younger women in the hope that she may bear a male child in order to provide an heir for her assets. Sons are also needed to continue the family name else the family name will die.

In conventional families and households the role of man is breadwinner, protector and provider. Men are responsible for certain aspects of physical labour, they oversee livestock e.g. cattle and hold the position of head on the household. Within the woman/woman marriage the female husband, “adopts the male gender and make every attempt to confirm to the male role behaviour.” (Oboler, R.S. 1980:136) The female husband takes on these duties mentioned above as well as the responsibility to present an heir to inherit the land and livestock. The female husband fully adopts the male role in sexual division of labour, they participate in political discussions, they

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