...The room was pitch black, with an eerie glow of glow sticks. The music started. The base was pulsing so loud it vibrates my skull. I waited for my cue, and when I heard my part, I jumped on stage and slid gracefully to the right with the music. I looked out into the audience and saw hundreds of kids cheering us on and trying to mimic the same dance that we had taught them earlier. No this was not a party, this was Vacation Bible School. After I got off of the stage, my sheep of 6th graders came running over to give praise. After all of the commotion, I tell my little sheep it’s time for closing prayer, they grudgingly walk back to our seats. As we took our seats, I looked over at my little sheep and thought how badly I was going to miss all...
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...foundation on which my early childhood was built, two life altering events which affected all aspects of my life. I can vividly remember the way my dad would sit in his rocking chair, the way my mom would wear her bandanas to hide her bald head, and the masks I wore whenever I wanted to hug my parents. Yet what tears one life apart cell by cell was what wove my life together. Through this struggle, I was able to gain important life lessons from my parents strength, my families undeniable connection, and the positive influences I felt at school, all of which impacted the way I want to be seen, and the future I hope for myself....
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...n one of the few in-depth treatments of power in conflict situations, Hubert M. Blalock begins by acknowledging something most of us know but rarely state: "The concept of power is both exceedingly slippery to pin down and yet indispensable in enabling one to analyze...."[1] Having defined power, as in physics, as having both potential and kinetic forms, he opts for the latter usage alone in his text. That is, he acknowledges power as both the capacity of an individual or group to accomplish something, and the actual doing of something, but he limits his discussion to "actions actually accomplished." Additional insights into understanding power are offered by Beyond Intractability project participants. This has two advantages. First, it dovetails with how most of us think about power most of the time. Second, it is easier to quantify. It is much easier to measure something that has occurred than something that is a possibility. An actual occurrence is a fact that can be checked. There may be disagreement on the sources of its occurrence, but the argument about its occurrence is likely to be short-lived if adequate facts can be brought to bear. If one side has won in a disagreement (in that it has gotten the other to do something it wanted), we have prima facie evidence that the first is more powerful -- or at least has exerted more power -- than the second. Since concerns of relative power are important in conflicts, it is helpful to have a clear picture of who has...
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...HOME / THREADS No-touch Policy Discussion raised again April 2002 ... A question on the issue of "touch" once again. I was wondering how people felt about the residential treatment homes that have a no-touch policy - what about the children who are suffering from attachment disorder. How do we ensure that they are getting the quality of care from us that they never received while at home? How do we teach them to have a healthy caring relationship if touch is not an option for us as an intervention? If someone could write back to me and tell me how to do this that would be great. Thanx Kim ____________ There is no question that touching is a basic biological need. When infants are denied touching, they die - as they did by the thousands in the foundling homes of the 19th century. This is a condition known as "maramus" - from the Greek, meaning "wasting away". The need to be touched does not diminish with age. Having run a residential center for many years, I realize some of the difficulties involved but, one way or another, touching is essential to the ongoing growth and development of the residents. There are many ways to do it. Gerry Fewster. ____________ Dear Kim, Congratulations to you for asking such an astute question. I am holding that institutions which have a no-touch policy are CHILD ABUSING. They should be reported to the licensing authorities of their particular mental health district. Professionals within that particular community should raise...
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...flight, a fabulous airport, Immigration & security check, languages written on the sign board and Not only those, buildings, routes, transports, fare systems, languages spoken around, dressings and the way of speaking etc, in other words, it was a cultural change and a shock to me. Later I reached my staff house; I got a call from my childhood friend, who has 2 years of working and living experience in Singapore. He invited me to go to white sands mall, Pasir ris where he lives by and to do some shopping. I was excited to meet him as I miss him since 2 years and love to see him back in abroad. I went to the mall and waiting for his arrival at the entrance, when I saw him walking on the road to the mall, I couldn’t resist myself to run and hug him in the pathway to the mall. Surprisingly, he avoided me and just told me to stop doing this. I was really felt bad and hurt as I done this to him many times. I do not understand that why he did behave to me like this and I could not control my feelings. As time passes in shopping, he slowly explaining me that Singapore is not like India where friends go out with holding their...
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...facing during this transition. For a single parenting dating can be extremely nerve working and challenging at times as well. Making the decision to date as a single parent is a major decision. Single parents should take in account their readiness to their children before they start to date. The author also explains the vast difference between "coupleness" and "familyness" and that often blended families will fail because the two adults involved made a great couple, but with the kids involved they do not make a great family. This book helps you to look past the "coupleness" of your relationship and evaluate whether or not you and your love interest also have good "familyness" together with the children involved. Deal discusses the importance of patience. "Wise adults patiently let time be their friend as coupleness and familyness develop" (Deal, pg. 105). Deal encourages adults to make wide decision in regards to marriage and take their times in dating relationships. This book also stresses the faulty logic behind finding "the one", and that rather you should be focusing your efforts on being "the one". "Marry someone, not as a replacement parent, but because you love them and believe they will help you raise your kids in the Lord's way. The author takes an in-depth look on finding...
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...A Poverty Solution That Starts With a Hug By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF PERHAPS the most widespread peril children face isn’t guns, swimming pools or speeding cars. Rather, scientists are suggesting that it may be “toxic stress” early in life, or even before birth. This month, the American Academy of Pediatrics is issuing a landmark warning that this toxic stress can harm children for life. I’m as skeptical as anyone of headlines from new medical studies (Coffee is good for you! Coffee is bad for you!), but that’s not what this is. Rather, this is a “policy statement” from the premier association of pediatricians, based on two decades of scientific research. This has revolutionary implications for medicine and for how we can more effectively chip away at poverty and crime. Toxic stress might arise from parental abuse of alcohol or drugs. It could occur in a home where children are threatened and beaten. It might derive from chronic neglect — a child cries without being cuddled. Affection seems to defuse toxic stress — keep those hugs and lullabies coming! — suggesting that the stress emerges when a child senses persistent threats but no protector. Cues of a hostile or indifferent environment flood an infant, or even a fetus, with stress hormones like cortisol in ways that can disrupt the body’s metabolism or the architecture of the brain. The upshot is that children are sometimes permanently undermined. Even many years later, as adults, they are more likely to suffer heart disease...
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...and family history that she would pass on to future generations. On the other hand, Dee is seen as a person who has lost her heritage and has become superficial in material things and bigger ideas than her family. Walker shows the portrayal of Maggie and Dee's value of family history when the family quilt is mentioned. The quilt, "had been pieced by Grandma Dee than Big Dee and me [Mama] had hung them on the quilt frames on the front porch and quilted them" (75). This illustrates the importance of the quilts history it has in the family. Walker also gives light to how Maggie would cherish and use the quilts and add to them just as the past women in her family. Whereas Dee only wants the quilts to hang up, ignoring the importance of using the quilt and adding to it has to the...
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...The Person, Health and Wellbeing Assessment 1 – Stage 2 The word ‘loss’ can be conveyed through many forms and variations of change. In relation to a 5-year-old child, change plays a vital role with increasing the way in which a child conceptualizes and responds to forms of loss. This is based on their developmental factors. The development of a child is endured by their “growth and change that makes an individual better adapted to the environment, by enhancing the individual’s ability to engage in, understand, and experience more complex behavior, thinking and emotions.” (Ailish Gill, 2012, p.166). In addition, these developments are associated with theories such as Piaget and Eriksons, which clarify the stage of cognitive growth (Ailish Gill, 2012, p.191) and psychosocial crisis, involving transitions in important social relationships (Ailish Gill, 2012, p.189). Furthermore, this essay will discuss the fundamental factors of how a 5-year-old conceptualizes and displays developmental factors through their response to loss and how the child is influenced from a cognitive and psychosocial perspective, which displays perceptions of their loss and how they cope with the change. According to Ailison Gill (2012) “Cognitive-developmental theory is concerned with what goes on in people’s minds: how they learn, reason, solve problems, understand language, explain themselves and experiences and beliefs.” (p.191) Piaget theory addresses cognitive-developmental theory by identifying...
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...made me the woman I am today. I didn’t allow my life to stop me from receiving my education. My sister was my role model that I looked up too. Even though, my sister is no longer here I am still striving to achieve my education. I learned at an early age the importance of an education. My goal is to instill in my daughter the importance of an education. Microsystem My support came from my sister and this allowed me to go beyond the crying. I can remember in elementary school, I would cry all the time, because I didn’t like going. As a child growing up school was one of my less favorite places. I was a spoiled child by my father, therefore the only person I wanted to be with was him. I did not understand how important school was back then. It was so hard for me to adjust to other children at my school. I did not think about how staying home would affect my learning. Of course, my father tried to persuade me to go to school, but it still took time for me to realize how important getting my education. My father brought me hamburgers and all the food I love eating. One day when I got home from school, my father had a surprise waiting on me. I was so excited, when I went in my room there was a brand new television. I hug my father and kiss him for my present. I knew my father wanted me to start going to school every day. I started going to school, but I still had my crying days. I did not miss school as often because, I was finally growing up. Also, I wanted to make my father...
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...differentiation and finding new buyers. Examples used in the case study included applying to different markets such as children and families, and the development of new flavors. 2. In what stage is Greek yogurt? (5 points) Greek yogurt is in the Growth Stage of the product life cycle. This is represented by its market share in 2007 of only 2% which grew to today’s 36% of the yogurt industry. This also includes the ever increasing revenues gained by Chobani, Yoplait, Fage and other companies selling Greek yogurt. 3. Describe the perceptual benefits of Chobani’s packaging. (6 points) In their early years, Chobani could not afford to advertise so the packaging including the label, shape, color, graphic, and actual container were of much importance. Ulukaya shows a lot of attention to detail in their packaging because he knows his main perceptual benefit is connecting with customers. The container the company uses is wider than typical yogurt brands to make it look bigger than others. Also using shrunken on sleeves to provide sharper, more appealing colors added to the connection. Another perceptual benefit used was cost reduction when he outsourced, contacting the Columbian supplier to make his containers, although they ended up spending about $250,000 regardless. 4. Tell me one specific thing in this article that you found interesting or surprising. (5 points) Overall I found Ulukaya’s...
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...Intro Russia Social and Cultural Thesis First I will tell you about Greetings Secondly, Social Life Last, the importance of Sports in their lives (Transition) Greetings Global Road Warrior On the one hand, Russians are forward and unpretentious. On the other hand, they greatly value the airs and graces that are accrued through education, work, and belonging to officialdom. Their greetings and courtesies reflect this double-mindedness. How many summers, how many winters!), which is the Russian equivalent of “Long time no see.” How many summers has it been? Or even longer How many winters? Good Russian male friends powerfully hug and pat one another on the back. Painfully Firm Handshake for acquaintances Women friends tend to embrace while exchanging three kisses that start on the left cheek and alternate sides. In business or official functions, Women are normally introduced 1st 3rd Party ordinarily makes introductions, when everyone is in the room standing at once. (Transition) Social Life Russians are superstitious about shaking hands over a threshold, for it is thought that this will lead to an argument. Russians do not shake hands with their gloves on, for fear of appearing rude. Smiling during a formal greeting is thought to be frivolous and disrespectful. Russians like to move into topics that will galvanize strong opinions and make for a good debate. Thus, they are happy to discuss politics and the...
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...organization, you would address him as Chairman Wang. (Chinese Business Etiquette, 2014) * How do you exchange business cards? Business cards are exchanged at every opportunity. Engraving your cards in gold and printing in Chinese on one side and English on the other side is encouraged. As with introductions, when you are exchanging business cards, remember to start from the senior most person in the meeting. When you receive a business card from a Chinese associate, accept it with two hands and read it before you place it in your pocket. (Chinese Business Etiquette, 2014) * How do you explain your position and your boss’s position? Given the importance of seniority in the Chinese culture, your boss should explain her position first and yours second. Use your titles and a brief description of your functions / importance to the company. * Where should you take him to lunch, and when? Lunch should be taken at the noon hour. A relaxed, quiet restaurant is preferred as the conversation will be...
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...BUL L CHARGE TO BEER HUG You might have heard the story about a rabbit & a turtle. How pride of that rabbit crashed? & He got a lesson. That story reminds us that we should learn from our every failure & not to under estimate our rivals. Let’s jump into the topic…………. When LEHMAN BROS. became insolvent, the whole world (corporate) got an electric shock which we call as CRISIS. AS we know it’s simply a trade -off between ECONOMIC GROWTH & INFLATION. The impact of LEHEMAN BROS. was not less than that of WTC collapse 9/11. The so called “SUPER POWER” USA languishingly fell into the hell of CRISIS. As a result it’s GDP squeezed, out sourcing stopped, un-employment increased, consumption declined & so on….. But as the usual attitude of AMERICANS, still they are not ready to accept the truth that they are slowly loosing their supremacy in the political & economical map of the globe. But it’s their agony which they are not willing to share with others. Since last 3 decades USA has been under estimating the eastern economic giants mainly like CHINA & INDIA. BUT they know CHINEESE is their prime enemy & INDO-CHINA relationship is getting worse. So a few days back they played a trick as USA told that CHINA is no more their favorite for outsourcing & INDIA is now on the top. But on the contrary in Q1 of FY-10, CHINA toppled JAPAN to become the world’s 2nd largest economy. I got information last week that...
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...Abstract This paper will provide a brief description of what critical thinking is; also explains the importance of using critical thinking. Further in the reading there will be an example of critical thinking applied within the home environment which is followed by a strategic plan and the steps will be provided to show the improvement, and finally the importance and benefits of critical thinking in the decision-making processes closing with the conclusion. What is critical thinking and why is important Critical thinking has many definitions from many different perspectives yet the simple definition can be define as the ability to think clearly and rationally. “Includes the ability to engage in reflective and independent thinking” (Lau &Chan, 2004). Possessing the ability to think rationally not necessarily requires being a top student or a person who can retain plenty of information. The process the involves critical thinking is just having the ability to deduce consequences from what one knows, and figure the way to make use of the correct information to solve problems, and seek for the most relevant source of information most convenient to use. • Using critical thinking as a skill can be very efficient within the workforce environment because the person can stretch his or her mind to the maximum and be distinguish as a problem resolver. Some abilities that come as recompense of using critical thinking according to Lau and Chan are: • understand the logical connections...
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